#poly problem

ok so poly problem: i want people to know i’m available, like it’s ok to ask me out, but also that i’m taken? is there a way to do that without being weird or making other people uncomfortable?

Soon I will be hitting a serious problem! K is going to be moving in with me, J, and our roommate. I don't know what to do about the rooming situation o.o while at the moment I share a room and bed with J, I don't think K will feel as accepted if I never sleep on the same bed as him. I don't think pushing two beds together will work, which seems to be the most common solution. I think it's time for the three of us to talk out a situation that doesn't include me sleeping in a different room each night...

I’ve been stood up twice in one week from the same person for a date. The frustrating part is whenever I’m busy they’re calling me and texting me begging to hangout, but when we actually make plans they vanish! I think I’m done giving chances. 

My boyfriend was going to go with my on my Atlanta trip next week but my aunt is wigging out because she thinks the hotel might be shady and wants to accompany me. How do I tell her no without arousing suspicion or do I cancel on my boyfriend? Ughhhhhhh