Heyy, I hope you’re taking care !
Can I have your opinion on North node Aries in the 8th house conjunct Mars, sextile Neptune, trine Pluto ?
Heyy! Hope you're taking care as well!
So your North Node is what you need to accomplish or work towards in this lifetime and your South Node is what you might tend to fall back to. It is something we need to learn to wean away from in this lifetime because it may not be as beneficial to us in our lifetime.
learn to trust yourself and be independent
get more comfortable in standing up for yourself
grow confident in your abilities
grow away from people pleasing
can be materialistic or rely on tangible assets for comfort
may hold on to the past too much
may struggle with possessiveness issues
North Node conjunct Mars:
can be swayed into fighting for others beliefs
North Node sextile Neptune:
may be intrigued by the arts or the occult
express themselves well through artistic means
others may manipulate them if not careful
powerful mind determination
not one to be pushed over
don't get carried away with your ambition
resourceful and adaptable
So in my opinion I think there's quite a nice balance within these placements. They kind of keep each other in check I guess you could say of course I don't know the orb of the aspects though, but they kind of cover the same overall themes in a way.
So firstly with your Aries North Node in the life you need to work towards being confident in yourself and truly trusting and loving yourself and your abilities. Work on forming your own ideas and step away with going with what everyone else is doing. Learn to be comfortable in your own skin and really raise your standards in how not only you treat yourself, but how others treat you as well. Learn to be a bit selfish and stop trying to make others happy all the time. I think your NN conjunct Mars and trine Pluto would really be helpful in this because those give potential for a lot of proactive energy. You have an immense amount of drive and ambition you just need to find what it is exactly you want to achieve (on your own without the opinions of others influencing you) and once you find the confidence to truly go for it you'll be unstoppable.
With your Aries NN being in the 8th house this might mean that you often seek comfort in your possessions and can be a bit materialistic. You need to learn to let go of the importance you put on tangible assets and foster things that aren't such as relationships or emotions. Combining this with Aries truly is encouraging you to focus on yourself and constantly grow and change into who you are meant to be. Learn to let go of what is holding you back whether it be memories of the past or objects that represent something that happened in the past. Holding on to the past will only hinder your growth which is what you truly need to work on. Focus on your own emotions and know that you don't need to go through life alone you can rely on others sometimes. With NN sextile Neptune this could be helpful because you may be inclined to spirituality you just need the push to fully dive in.
Okay so I hope that all made sense sorry if it was a bit all over the place. Let me know if anything resonated! Remember to be kind to yourselves :)