This is my man. He stood with me from the day we found out I'm pregnant. He went to every gynae appointment with me. He fixed the baby's cots, he prepared the baby's room. He did everything that I couldn't do in the 38 weeks and 6 days of pregnancy. When my water bag broke on 24 March 11.30pm, he got everything ready while I took a shower before heading to the hospital. He was excited to be daddy to the little one and I could see it in his entire being. 😊 When I was checked in to the delivery ward, he did all that he could - to be present with me. (Ask him and he will tell you that there's nothing he could do to help me feel better during that time. Literally, he felt helpless.) but husbands, fathers-to-be, being present with your wife is probably the best thing you can do for them when they are in labour. 🙂 On 25 March 9.21pm, our little one was born. Since that day, I have seen even more of what my man is capable of. He loves our son with very much, yet he never neglects my needs in this season. He gives me hugs when I need them, he assures me when I feel overwhelmed, he does things for me when I have no ability to do so... With a lack of sleep, he tries his best to still soothe our little one to sleep, to pick him from the cot and pass him to me for feeding and later on put him back into the cot again... God, thank You for giving me a husband whose love for You overflows into the way he loves and cares for his family. 💕 #plenntifful #plenntiffulfambam https://www.instagram.com/p/B-erTWVHLKM/?igshid=45u9xdkfq8qe

Is it pregnant then can have whatever I want? Smelt BBQ two days ago and simply said that I wanna eat, and the family spontaneously decided to have BBQ for dinner. Was supposed to have it at Sembawang Park but the rain wouldn't stop. So made do with whatever we had 🤷‍♀️ still good! 😎 #plenntifful #pregnancyjourney #family https://www.instagram.com/p/B-GrQqony0Z/?igshid=6vi7ii5i3wlq

Yesterday's bump at 38 weeks & 3 days.🤰 "When are you coming?" This question has been perpetually in my mind since. Anticipating the coming of Ean has been both a joy and a pain. A joy because we know he's coming and we can't wait to meet him 😊, yet a pain because we have to bear with not knowing when he's coming. 🙄 Is this what we feel as we anticipate the coming of Christ as well? Are we filled with joy knowing that He will come one day, yet at certain moments filled with agony because we have no idea when He's coming? #plenntifful #pregnancyjourney #pregnancybump #pregnancyreflections #plenntifful蔡包 https://www.instagram.com/p/B-EBjcKHO9z/?igshid=7m1cusb3e75

Experiencing pregnancy for the first time has been nothing short of interesting. Other than the outward sign of the tummy growing bigger over the 40 weeks, and the body changing in ways I would never have been able to imagine if not for going through it, there was also much spiritual pruning, change in perspectives and deepening of convictions. Finally penned my thoughts after 2 weeks of procrastination so that I can always remember how good God has been in this season. Go on to click on the link in my profile if you'd like to find out what the season has been like for me 🙂 #plenntifful #pregnancyjourney #pregnancybump https://www.instagram.com/p/B9ycjbyHVg-/?igshid=wxrkfyav7mue

The friends with whom we always talk and dream about starting businesses with since their wedding prep. 😆 may the Lord grant us our hearts' desires! Haha #plenntifful #plenntiffulfriends https://www.instagram.com/p/B9wah7BHX1-/?igshid=6tdg19jnt47p

Dear Ean Daniel 蔡毅恩, you have been in mama's tummy for almost 37 weeks now. Ean means God is gracious. Pa and ma named you Ean Daniel because we have seen the grace of God from the day we found out about you at 5 weeks. You will learn the need for God's grace throughout your life and as a result be a vessel for the grace of God to be brought to many. Your faith in God will be as resolute as Daniel's. You will be as human as Daniel was, yet your faith will never be shaken come what may. Your chinese name means exactly the same as your english name. 毅的意思是刚强;坚定。你在主里的信心无论如何必坚定不移，就像但以理一样。你的生命会是充满了神的恩典，也因为这样，你必带领众人来认识耶稣基督。所以，爸妈给你取名叫毅恩。 Mama wants you to know that you have a papa who may seem quiet to his friends, but really, he can be quirky and fun like in some of these photos. He is a committed papa - he reads to you (in case you are wondering whose voice is that) and prays for you every night no matter how tired he is. Sometimes mama falls asleep first so that's when papa doesn't get to read to you and pray with you. 😬 and he gets really excited when he sees you move in mama's tummy too! He will take time to wait at mama's tummy just to see you move. Pa and ma know that the most important gift to you is to keep our marriage strong and intact, so that's what we will do even when you are out of mama's tummy. Don't be fussy when we leave you with ah gong and ah ma so that pa and ma can go on a date because we will need those moments to ensure that we can continue to give you the best of us. 😊 We look forward to meeting you, Ean! 📷: @alittleblackbox #plenntifful https://www.instagram.com/p/B9jqh0_HkKN/?igshid=133ullapjmynz

It felt good to spend almost 7 hours out today after staying home for 3 weeks. Surprised myself that I could still walk (without pains and aches) for about 5 hours with occasional rest stops (pretending to try out chairs, sofas and mattresses) at 34 weeks. Also surprised myself (i think @lennardch was surprised too) that I was pretty willing to spend today. The hubs has always wanted to buy a study table but it was me who initiated to get a study table today, and not only that, we even got a roller chair, a rack for the yard, a small table for the living room, a mattress for ahma and several other smaller items. Must be the preggy hormones making me a little crazy. But the hubs must be quite glad cos we got what he's been asking for. Haha and thank God that I decided to bring a can of soft drink out, which allowed me to sit on a really comfy chair and enjoy my drink while waiting for the hubs and inlaws. #plenntifful https://www.instagram.com/p/B84ISDfHr3B/?igshid=yiire1a214lq

Today is V-day. I am on home quarantine. He's on LOA. It was not a usual day. I was frustrated. Can't fully articulate. Vented on my hubs. Yet he never said a word. Continued cooking. Thank you for bearing with me. Thank you for your love. Won't trade you for another. #plenntifful #plenntiffulhome #plenntiffulcooks https://www.instagram.com/p/B8jUweWHbHd/?igshid=hk8n7md8d8ua