#please chill

Sometimes I feel like ya’ll imagine me in a Story of O outfit, right in front of my toddler, repeating submissive mantras to my lord and master husband when really we’re both trying to make through dinner and bedtime in one piece and can’t get Wheels on the Bus out of our heads.

i do not believe u if you say/pretend you’re a The Band scholar when you clearly haven’t payed your dues digging thru the readings/watchings/facebook groups/bullshit and you regurgitate everyone elses takes and jokes meanwhile the elders have spent hours in those rabbit holes and also spending money on shit for all of us to enjoy. theres a lost art in etiquette of joining a new fandom (hate that word) where u can just get the lay of the land, u dont need to be posting, you dont need to know everything. its ok to be new and seek things out. i don’t think anyone is a bad person, i don’t not like you but it’s extremely disheartening and annoying to see so many people saying shit that is flat out wrong and sometimes even harmful. tumblr is fun and games and i know that and i love rick and richard and levon and garth and robbie too, music is power and thats the common ground. but yall have a old man tumblr veteran PEEEEEVED!!!