#pisces hate

Frankly, it’s true.

If a Pisces sun is still in their people pleasing phase, they will allow the other person to cross their boundaries a few times. Pisces Suns are very open people with a good amount of patience for others. We will allow it a couple times due to wanting to avoid conflict or abandonment.

However, if you are friends with a Pisces Sun, you must CONSIDER OUR FEELINGS LIKE THEY WILL CONSIDER YOURS. YOU MUST share that there is a mutual OPEN CHANNEL of COMMUNICATION between you two so they aren’t afraid to share their feelings. That way you relinquish any fears they might have to truly tell you about yourself. To see any growth you must demonstrate you are capable of growth.

Pisces really dislike selfishness despite being selfish. It’s different. Pisces selfishness is self preservation, others selfishness can be self indulgence. We hold so much space for others, we tend to lose ourselves, which is why we have selfish tendencies. For Pisces Suns, once we are recharged and stable, we can begin pouring into others again.

If you continue to cross a Pisces boundaries, they usually allow it a couple times because they’ve convinced themselves it’s not that big of a deal or you are their friend so it’s okay. We also tend to forget as well. However, when they notice you hurting them is becoming a PATTERN. You will have a problem on your hands. Once Pisces suns recognize that the boundaries you have crossed are not a simple mistakes but conscious ones? Once we realize that your behavior is a pattern, you will begin to see their shadow side. Pisces Suns will believe in the good in others until it is clear as day that it is the opposite.

Once that resentment has built a solid foundation, the Pisces Sun will begin to mirror you. Everything hurtful that you may have said or did to a Pisces will be repaid to you. They will consciously choose to upset you, hurt you, or cross you. It will be justified to the Pisces Sun because you set the standard for that type of behavior. There will be no warning either, our behavior will change overnight. The warm bubbly and caring Pisces you have befriended will turn into a cold, dark and conniving one.