I know I've been very absent, but I've had a lot of problems lately, but I promise I'll upload the pending requests soon. ( The # of fandoms is so that the people who made the requests know that I am not ignoring them, I'm sorry everyone!!)
This is long, I'm so sorry!!
That said, I would like you to please help me by giving me your opinions:
A few days ago my sister asked me to make her a dress, so these days I have been out on the street (going to stores to buy materials) and after that, at home, I was working on the dress because my sister wanted it as quickly as possible. Also, on the weekend I went out to buy things with my parents and we took a phone that was broken to get it fixed, and that day I was out on the street all day.
You have to know that in the country and more specifically in the area where I reside it is dangerous to have your phone in your hand when you are on the street. My friend knows that and also knew that I have been on the street or working so I have barely been able to be on my phone. My sister also told my friend that she was busy, but a few days ago my friend got angry because I wasn't texting him as much as he wanted and he's been ignoring me ever since.
My friend told my sister that he wasn't going to write to me (because he left me on read) because I was going to reply angrily (which isn't true because for starters I'm not angry and it's obvious because I've been replying to messages in groups where he and I are together without any problem). What is true is that I have no intention of sending him more messages because he was the one who ignored my last messages and because I had already explained again and again that I was busy and that's why I couldn't reply. We were also supposed to have plans to see each other (my friend, my sister, and I) but now my friend is telling my sister that he's not going to come (implying it's my fault he's not coming) and my sister is now angry with me even though she's aware of all sides of the situation (she herself has seen how busy I am)
Recently I was told that my friend is jealous of another friend I made (friend #2) and is afraid that I will replace him, something I have never hinted at happening because I have very different relationships with my friend and with friend #2. Following this new discovery, I also found out that friend #2 has a female friend (girl #1) who also knows my main friend.
Girl #1 asked friend #2 to block her from his Whatssap statuses because she is afraid that friend #2 will replace her with me
As additional information, my main friend has borderline personality disorder and girl #1 is a menhera. (I don't know if they have a specific disorder, but knowing that they are a menhera should give them a bit of extra information)
I want to know your opinions on my following questions (please and thank you):
1- Am I to blame for this situation?
2- Am I an idiot for thinking this whole situation between my main friend, friend #2, and girl #1 is ridiculous?
As someone who also has poor mental health, I constantly try to understand other people's symptoms and watch my attitudes and words so as not to cause them problems, but a while ago I was in a situation where I started to stop talking to several friends so as not to "upset" someone who was close to me. I'm a person who finds it very difficult to relate, so that previous situation completely isolated me and I definitely don't want to go back there now that I'm making friends again.
In case I expressed myself badly, I repeat again that my main friend knew that I was very busy and that's why I couldn't send as many messages as he wanted me to send. In addition to that, I have recently been going through a very complicated situation with my mental health, so it has been difficult for me to stay active on social media (as all of you may have noticed) but I have done my best to reply to his messages and it was only these past few days where I didn't reply much.
