That's kind of a big deal to me because I never had a boyfriend since I have high standards and in this day and age I want a husband but most importantly human-material, because nowadays everybody's crazy 😋.
I would like to have someone by my side who is strong and manly, but in a healthy protective way. I like the trope cute school girl-messy angry guy, in of course a realistic way. I like being protected and cared for so I'd like a man with security and emotional intelligence so we can communicate in peace and complete each others holes😉.
Of course who wouldn't like a man who's love language is gift giving. Or in general giving. As always I'm talking about both sides because only receiving is a toxic thing. I'd like a financially stable guy, with a good income and important connections with important people because that also could help me get a really good job and be known in my field of expertise. Also something really important is the team work spirit he has to have. I don't want rich gifts if he isn't a true provider. That includes dealing with house cleaning, being a part of ours kids lives, being there for me and our families and children.
This is as important as hygiene to me. If he doesn't take care of his health I don't want to commit to that.ever. Sorry but that's the truth, if I'm doing something health wise I'm expecting for my partner to do it too. I like fit men and I'm not hiding it. I'd love an athlete, the passion that follows with the job and the lifestyle are a dream life to have because you dedicate your life to a goal that gives you opportunities and memories out of this world. Plus the lifespan is higher so we will spend more time together 🤭.
I think this is the most important of all. As old as we get, as angry, jealous, sad, weird with each other true love means being obsessed with your person, in a good way. As ugly as we look, as bad as our breath smells in the morning, in the worst cases of cenario, whatever happens I need my person to truly be there for me. I love the idea that someone out there can be in love with literally every inch of you and I believe it because I've seen happen and I know I will have it💜