#overshare

It was my sister's first relationship, and as of now, her only relationship.

But the purity ring wasn't given in a perverted way. My mom gave it to my sister one day, saying "this isn't necessarily to keep you from becoming 'unpure'. It's a reminder to take things slowly and build the foundations for a stable relationship."

It wasn't a shame thing, which is really unusual in a Christian family. It wasn't to make her feel like she had to stay 'pure' or she would be worthless. It was a reminder that being in a relationship needs stability and you can't be stable without a good foundation.

Ooo my first time getting one of these; I feel like a teen again. 5 things that make me happy:

1. Uhh getting one of these, it's the first ask/tag game I've participated in so thx!!

2. This is my fandom account so if I didn't list my top several fandoms I'd be crazy. So currently spy x family obviously, but also witch hat atelier (anime only bit but veryyy tempted), and apothecary diaries. But going back later. Also pride and prejudice, and star trek (all).

3. I'm a board game fan so a really good board game with friends idk, I like mid weight games like Mysterium and Carcassone and also heavy games like Twilight Imperium, which can take a whole day to play 😅

4. My cats, I have two big (~12-15 pound) boys. And if I list my cats I have to also list my spouse, so all three of my boys.... 🐈🐈‍⬛❤️

5. Hiking and camping and rock climbing which I didn't have time to do the last however long because school, but I get a life now so yay!

🤡 What's a line, scene, or exchange you've written that made you laugh?

SO MANY! I love: From Like a Song with No End: - That was mean / Mean would’ve been sending it in the middle of your shift when you couldn’t jerk off. - In Ellis's toast where she says Garcia caught them kissing and Garcia yells that she didn't gossip because she didn't care - Ellis calling herself the "toastmaster general" - Ellis calling Abbot's ring "the most infamous accessory in emergency medicine" which is obviously a meta mohabbot joke. From Easy Does It - We're so bad at this / Speak for yourself - All the comments on the Instagram post, but especially "Not me loving these heteros" which is another meta/fanfic joke since, you know, it ain't slash. From All Flowers In Time (Bend Towards the Sun) - When Inej thinks maybe she and Kaz invented making out.

From 5 Times Helen and Persephone Passed the Bechdel Test - Helen and Persephone's comments about Cassandra 👀 Tell me about an up and coming wip please! More under the cut!

I'm playing with some Other Desert Cities outtakes that I will probably post soon in which Jack and Samira are back in the kitchen having another fight, but this time (spoiler alert) it's a fun, sexy one. I'm also playing with the idea of another "how do they get together" mohabbot story that will be a 5 +1 told through five "one-night stands." Is it a one-night stand if it happens again? I love the idea of pining when the characters are also having sex.

1. My friend went into crisis

2. Said friend confessed year lasting feelings for me (I am on the aroace spectrum and don't know how to say that to them)

3. I have fallen ill

4. Massive tension headache

5. My mildly racist and homophobic grandparents are coming to do renovations

But!