#ouroandar

Reach out to her often! Invite her to stuff! Make her feel like she’s actually wanted around! It’s a really small thing to do, but it really does make a huge difference to her and she absolutely notices when her partner asks her to be active in their life. 

Trust her with all the aspects of their lives. That doesn’t mean to expect her to manage or help with those aspects, because there’s always a chance that’s not wanted. But, it’s a comfortable spot to be to know intimately what’s going on in your partner’s life because they also felt safe enough with you to bring you in. 

Fiorenze always feels safest with someone when she feels like they truly value her.

Lyn’s a secret romantic. It’s rare that a man or woman she’s attracted to has that kind of mindset, so it’s a trait she finds super endearing and goo-worthy, especially when it’s meant for her.  

Flowers? Hell yeah. Someone used to leave roses on her porch when they were “courting” and it was one of the sweetest things anyone’s ever done for her. She hung them all up to dry to preserve them. 

Little messages that let her know she’s being thought about? Almost never really happened, but it was always a huge pick-me-up when they did. 

Heck, a partner just realizing she’s too tired to do her personal chores and doing them for her? Amazing.