okay so like a couple years ago ive tried multiple times to come out to her and my dad and it never really worked, but to be fair then i was likw 12-13, even though its totally possible to know youre trans at that age, but anyway last time i brought it up would be like two years ago now but then i dated thsi one guy who is also trans and she was fully accepting of him, shes been wildly like "oh you dont like your hair, lets get you a haircut as soon as possible" literally seeing my preferred name on a thing i signed for a friend and not saying a word, and the fact that whenever i would come out she would always say that shes torn between me and my dad on it, and would take my dads side because hes the husband, but since we've now gotten way closer the last almost year and have moved hours apon hours around the country i feel like we're better at communicating with each other, one of the main things that makes me think she might be more accepting is that yk ive know im not a girl for like three years now it doesnt really seem much like a phase and also that now im able to explain why my gender (or lack thereof) is the way it is compared to parroting the usual reasons that are told to simplify the trans experience best as possible

good haul