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Potentially an odd question, but is there a specific site or method you use for research for your writings? Researching medical/legal/similar procedures is the bane of my existence because I can never seem to find an explanation I understand well enough to then write about.
I recently caught up to Stain, and while reading it struck me how you put a lot of detail into a wide variety of topics (the medical part of Alex’s injury at the start, therapy, Alex’s eye examination, Sebastian talking about his boss trying to underpay him, among other topics) (HUGE kudos about that by the way, it adds another layer of realism) and it feels like there’s no way one person can have firsthand experience/knowledge in ALL these things unless you’ve lived an extremely varied life.
I was just hoping you might have some pointers about how to go about researching basically anything because I feel like I’ve GOT to be missing something.
No worries if you can’t/don’t want to/don’t have an answer, I just thought shooting an ask your way is worth a shot haha.
Hi anon,
Researching is its own skillset, like writing or editing, there's no one specific site to go to, to make it easier, it's more like...taking the time to learn the constellation of ever-changing sites, books, and more in order to best learn how to learn. Because that's really what it is about: Learning how to learn.
On learning how to learn (I should say, I'm not very good at teaching, so some of this stuff might not be helpful to you, please ignore it if it isn't!):
"A wise person knows that there is something to be learned from everyone." – Author unknown
Protect your peace.
I think I’m finally learning that it’s okay unfollow people, to block people. For whatever reason.
I am a secondary people pleaser. I was not always. I worked at a job that required me to learn people pleasing behavior. That required me to learn how to need everyone to like me.
Strangely, that job taught me grace and humility; as much as it taught me to stand up for myself when appropriate.
Two steps forward, one step back.
In my life, I have chosen to believe that you grow through what you go through and you live with what you learn; but not everyone abides by this.
A lot of people use Tumblr to vent their anger or release the worst parts of themselves that they can’t put other places.
I think I’m finally beginning go understand this, but I am also understanding that it doesn’t have to be something I absorb or tolerate.
I don’t have to be mutuals with an entire fanbase, or read everyone’s writing to spread enough kindness. Fandom is not a requirement or a necessity. It’s a social circle.
Socially, some people understand and connect, better than others. It’s okay to have your crowd.
Success isn’t in the statistics.
Success is in the smiles. The small comments. The people you get to know. The time you share with them. Even the ones you get to know and say goodbye to later. Friendship isn’t always lasting. Sometimes it isn’t the time that matters, it’s the person.
We all do what we can, when we can, how we can — and that is enough.
You are enough — if no one told you. If no one agreed with you. If no one liked the post which you put so much effort into.
I hope you can remember that.
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May 30, Season 2 (2/3)

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“you have to keep learning” They say, “it never stops ,not after school,not after college not after you’ve got your PhD” .like a warning. Like it’s bad news. Like it’s the most terrible, terrifying thing . Maybe it is for them. To me that’s the most comforting five words ever. More than “we can be friends again” in seventh grade . It’s the one thing I’m sure of. And to hear someone confirm it. It’s relief. Honestly what would I do If I don’t have anything to learn.
[捌] We the people have spoken against our endless war
I need whoever happens to read this dumb journal entry to realize something: Individuals can be stupid and to hold them up in any sort of pedestal is going to, more often than not, do more harm than good, both for them and to yourself. ---- And this isn't just because the default "Ignore celebrities" tool that I've grown more and more accustomed to deploying now that I'm on my mid-to-late 30's, but maybe just realize that artists, celebrities, influencers, etc are also human, and we humans can be really dumb. ---- Sure, humans being... well, human (in this specific case, meaning "kinda dumb"), can also be charming and make you go "Oh they just like me frfr!" and like that's fine. It's fine: You can still stan and/or enjoy whoever you like, just never become so incurious that you take what anybody recognizable says as gospel. ---- That's the whole idea behind the phrase "stay woke" that african-americans have been saying since the 1930's: Stay alert of racial-prejudice + racial discrimination. "Alert" being the opposite of incurious and ignorant. Be aware. Be awake. ---- Sure, I know that the term (mostly the word woke, in this case) has come to mean something else entirely in the 2010's and 2020's because language changes all the time, and I know that change can feel like it sucks, but it doesn't have to. Humans are all about being stubborn bastards who refuse to remain in obsolescence. ---- When something sucks, we don't just go "it is what it is". Fuck that shit. We work hard to make it stop sucking. Or to give way to people so that they can make it better. Anyway, keep yourselves safe out there and read ya' later!