upon a lot of thought and some support from friends, i’m coming out as genderfluid. this means i’m okay with any of the pronoun spectrum, at any given time. i usually prefer she/her, but right now, i’m leaning towards he/him. basically my thoughts here are i give close to no shits what you call me, and i still adore pet names that might indicate gender (baby girl, handsome, etc) mostly because i see them as affectations rather than the gender they signify. so.. uh. yeah. thank you so much for all your love and support and for the friends standing by me for this. 💖⚡️














