Hi there =) I read that you don't want to do homework for people, I get it, and this is fairly easy probably... very beginner level Spanish but with all the online lessons I don't get it. How/when/why do I know when to use a word like 'decĂrtelo'. I get that the te refers to the fact I'm using the second person singular and the lo stands for it. But I can't figure out when to use it or how to build it if that makes sense. Thank you
Oh thatâs totally not a problem. When I say I donât want to do peopleâs homework I usually mean I donât want to write their essays for them.
So, what youâre seeing with decĂrtelo is a combination of three things: the infinitive form decir, plus te, and then a direct object lo
Or in other words, combining direct and indirect objects with a verb in some way.
But I will say before beginning that the accent marks appear because of something extremely complicated known as esdrĂșjula which is not really a beginner topic. Itâs really: âWhy does that word have an accent mark?â
Basically that whole thing is how you decide if and where to put in accent marks.
Saying decirte âtelling youâ would have no accent, but then you add decĂrtelo and it does because you added a new particle to the word but the emphasis was always on the âcirâ and without the accent mark people might put it on the âteâ instead.Â
Again, itâs very complicated especially for beginners so just be aware of it but donât worry if you donât know it.
There are three ways that you see this:
Infinitive form [which is often optional]
Gerund or progressive form
Affirmative commands
#1 - Infinitive form
The infinitive form is the textbook dictionary form a verb. Itâs just unconjugated.
You would use this either because you have a conjugated verb + an unconjugated verb, usually with a helping verb thatâs already conjugated like poder, querer, or debe⊠or when youâre using the verb as a noun like âthe action or result of a verbâ
When you have two verbs together, one is conjugated and the one that follows (or sometimes the multiple ones that follow) are in infinitive form. And when you add direct or indirect objects, you normally have the option to put them all in front of the conjugated verb⊠OR you can attach them all to the verb in the infintiive
Te lo digo. = Iâm telling you. [one conjugated verb]
Tengo que decĂrtelo. = I have to tell you (it). [one conjugated verb + unconjugated verb]
Te lo tengo que decir. = I have to tell you (it). [alternative form]
And since you might be in a position where you could use multiple verbs hereâs one:
Quiero poder decĂrtelo. = I want to be able to tell you (it).
It would sound really strange adding all of that in front. Iâm not sure if itâs possible. Like, it would make sense but it would sound very strange.
Most people put the things at the end, particularly English speakers since in English we tend to put our objects at the end and it feels more natural.
Since infinitive can sometimes be used by itself Iâll show you sort of what that looks like:
DecĂrtelo es difĂcil. = Telling you (it) is hard.
Querer decĂrtelo y poder decĂrtelo son cosas muy distintas. = Wanting to tell you (it) and being able to tell you are very different things.
#2 - Gerund/Progressive form
The gerund is the â-ingâ form of a verb. Itâs a verbal form, not exactly conjugated, but itâs not the same as the infinitive.
These normally come in with estar, or a verb of motion like ir, seguir, or andar.
Me lo sigues diciendo. = You keep telling me (it). / You continue telling me (it).
Sigues diciéndomelo. = You keep telling me (it). / You continue telling me (it).
Again, sometimes you might see a helping verb in there somewhere:
Tienes que seguir diciéndomelo. = You have to keep telling me (it).
Puedes seguir diciéndomelo. = You can kee telling me (it).
#3 - Affirmative Commands
Negative commands are worded differently, but this is somewhat more complicated.
First you need to know how to conjugate commands. With commands, thereâs tĂș command for informal, usted command for formal, and a plural command if youâre talking to multiple people.
Second you need to get the indirect object right because it could be different.
And then you need to get the direct object right because what youâre talking about might be masculine or feminine depending on context.
So for example, say that the lo in this is el regalo âgiftâ, while the la here is la carta âletterâ:
DĂĄmelo. = Give it to me. [informal]
Démelo. = Give it to me. [formal]Dénmelo. = Give it to me. [plural]
Dåmela. = Give it to me. [informal]Démela. = Give it to me. [formal]Dénmela. = Give it to me. [plural]
Thereâs a lot of weirdness to unpack in all of that but it has to do with esdrĂșjula and thatâs also weird.
Side Note: When an indirect object is 3rd person [him/her/usted or them/you all] + direct object, the indirect object turns to se so that you donât have to use le and les and trip yourself up
pedir un favor = to ask for a favorpedirte un favor = to ask a favor of you / to ask you a favorpedirle un favor = to ask a favor of him/her/Youpedirles un favor = to ask a favor of them/you all
pedĂrtelo = to ask you for (it) [lit. âto request it of youâ]
pedĂrselo (a Ă©l) = to ask him for itpedĂrselo (a ella) = to ask her for itpedĂrselo (a usted) = to ask you for it [formal]pedĂrselo (a ellos / ellas) = to ask them for itpedĂrselo (a ustedes) = to ask you all for it
Spain also has vosotros which is like âyou allâ but informal⊠so like âyâallâ
That would be pediros un favor and then pedĂroslo
Commands can sometimes be reflexive so you might see them with accent marks too: levĂĄntate [tĂș], levĂĄntese [usted], and levĂĄntense [plural] which all mean âget up!â in different levels of formality.
There are cases where a command might have a direct object and also be reflexive:
ponerse la ropa = to put on clothes
Ponte el abrigo. = Put your coat on.Ponte la chaqueta. = Put your jacket on.Ponte los zapatos. = Put your shoes on.Ponte las medias. = Put your socks on. [la media is a regional word for âsockâ, youâre probably used to el calcetĂn for âsockâ and los calcetines for plural]
PĂłntelo. = Put it on.PĂłntela. = Put it on.PĂłntelos. = Put them on.PĂłntelas. = Put them on.
Again, poner is an irregular verb.
Youâd get the same kind of construction with quitarse la ropa âto take off clothesâ:
QuĂtatelo. = Take it off.QuĂtatela. = Take it off.QuĂtatelos. = Take them off.QuĂtatelas. = Take them off.
There are other smaller issues with this and more itty bitty details, but this is the basic gist.










