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☰ Obito

■ Obito can have an extremely protective and possessive side but he doesn’t like showing it to you, because he really doesn’t like being serious with you, he’ll like being his happy go lucky laid-back self around you. Which means he can try to keep his possessive side hidden.

■ Generally, his possessive side can come across more as playful clinginess, so you may not really see him as being possessive. He can seem clingy/possessive about knowing where you’re going, how long you’ll be gone, when you’ll be back, who you’ll be with.

■ He can get jealous easily which really feeds into his possessive attitude because he won’t like you spending too much time with others. Family, friends, coworkers especially if you spend too much time with the same person over and over and even more so if it’s a guy he doesn’t know very well.

■ Can cling to you hugging and cuddling with you and not wanting you to get up or leave him. Which can make him physically move to stop you, grabbing your wrist or hand, and even pulling you back towards him or hugging you to keep you at home with him.

■ Does not like to feel ignored and because he does get jealous so easily, he can become very hostile and threatening to goys in your life or anyone you spend a lot of time with. He can especially be threatening and aggressive towards any guys that seem flirtatious towards you even to the point of being physically violent but usually behind your back.

☰ Kankuro

■ Can get possessive but rarely and needs a good reason to even feel possessive with you. Practically the only thing that can get a reaction out of him is him witnessing someone flirting with you, asking you out, bothering you, stalking you or touching you inappropriately.

■ When he does show a possessive side, he can be quite hostile and physically threatening even occasionally to the point of seeming cruel. He also acts immediately which means he won’t do much behind your back and will deal with issues right in front of you.

■ He’s not afraid to show his possessive side to you because he feels like it’s justified since he doesn’t get possessive very easily. And he can get jealous at times but can usually keep a lid on it, but he’ll be possessive more often when he’s trying to protect you.

■ Though he can get more possessive it you get annoyed or angry with him for becoming possessive, he will not like feeling like you don’t understand where he’s coming from. Especially since he’ll really be trying to protect you from someone, he thinks is bothering you.

☰ Obito

■ Obito will not have anything in mind and rather come up with things as the day goes on. Sleeping in and lazing around in bed as long as possible, not particularly having anything in mind and will actually assume you’ll come up with something.

■ However Obito will try to make things as perfect as possible, because he will see this time as a possible date opportunity. and won’t really want to pass up the chance of being able to take you out and do something nice together.

■ Can be a little childish about how he wants to spend the day together, or with his ideas. Suggesting simple ideas like playing video games, building a pillow fort or going for a picnic.

■ Though it’ll be easy enough for him to come up with ideas of things for the two of you to do, he would much rather you come up with ideas. Because he will want to spend the day doing things you want to do.

☰ Kakashi

■ Doesn’t want to leave the house all day and would be completely happy staying at home lazing around and watching movies all day. Or even if the two of you spent all day in bed cuddling he will be completely happy.

■ Would rather lay around and watch movies or so all day, wouldn’t want to go out to eat and would rather order out for food, rather than have you cook.

■ He won’t like the idea of leaving the house because he would rather just relax all day, however if there was something you really wanted to do. Then he wouldn’t mind going along with what ever you wanted to do.

■ Would like the idea of lazing around in the living room all day, watching movies. And even if the two of you didn’t spend the whole day doing stuff together, he will like just being in the same room as you or being near you.

■ If Obito finds out about this when he’s in the Akatsuki as Tobi he will initially be very angry and hurt about the news. So angry in fact that he may want to rush over and deal with the situation but he’s not angry with you but angry with Kakashi even though Kakashi likely doesn’t know the full story

■ After all he will still hold a grudge against Kakashi for what happened to Rin, so he won’t see you or his child being safe with Kakashi, and will be worried about you or his child getting killed. But he won’t feel betrayed by you for being with kakashi

■ He will not be happy about it and though he’ll want to intervene to keep you and his child safe he won’t and he’ll put up with it and continue with his plans in the Akatsuki until he can confront kakashi

■ His reactionwill be a bit different depending on whether or not the two of you were tryingor planning to get pregnant or if it was an accident. Either way he’ll besurprised and even be a bit worried about it but he will be far more panickedif it wasn’t planned.

■ While he willbe concerned about the pregnancy and you as well as being a father, he will beexcited about it and comes around to the idea of being a father pretty quickly,even though he will still have his moments where he worries and panics a bit.

■ Does his bestto plan for the arrival of the baby as far as getting things the two of youwill need and preparing a nursery, which he will let you decide on the theme ofthe nursery and he will simply put things together for you, but the theme orcolor scheme is all up to you.

■ Is veryattentive and watchful over you because he will be a bit too worried about youand will prefer to do things for you, especially ones you actually begin toshow and look pregnant but the further along in the pregnancy the moreconcerned he’ll be for your well-being and safety.

■ May actconfident or ready at times and even have a plan for when you do go into laborbut when things actually happen, he’ll forget about any plan or planning thatwas made before hand and panics pretty quickly and won’t know exactly what todo or how to help.

☰ Obito

■ Overly timid and nervous not just for the wedding but for everything leading up to the wedding. Talking about the wedding makes him nervous and the closer the actual wedding date gets the more nervous he gets. This is mainly because he’s terrified that he is going to accidentally embarrass you, or mess something up somehow.

■ Can get interested and excited about planning some aspects of the wedding, though he really leaves a lot of decisions up to you. But he does enjoy talking about different things like designs, color schemes, the cake. However he will become nearly instantly nervous talking about the actual mechanics of how the wedding will go.

■ Superstitious about Wedding traditions such as the groom is not supposed to see the bride before the wedding. He also prefers a more traditional type of wedding as far as the set up and style goes. However he would be fine with whatever would make you happy.

■ Is worried about embarrassing you or embarrassing your family in some way, he’s already going to be extremely nervous around your family to begin with. Because he’s always going to feel rather unworthy of being with you, and especially to be marrying you.

■ Even though every aspect of the wedding is going to make him nervous and worry, he will want to know every bit of how things will go for he can learn what he needs to do and when. He will also practice what he needs to say and do a lot of reading up about weddings in advance.

■ He is not the type to get emotional until he does see you walking down the aisle, this is because he’ll spend the beginning half of the wedding worrying himself to death that he’s going to do something wrong. But when he does see you coming down the aisle that’ll melt his worry away, though it’ll turn him more emotional where he’ll have to keep himself from crying.

☰ Neji

■ Does not seem nervous or very worried about the wedding at all, he also doesn’t have a great interest in the layout or design of the wedding. He will leave a lot of the decisions up to you because he feels like a lot of the choices will mean more to you than it does to him.

■ Not to say he just lets you plan everything yourself he will go with you to pick out things like the cake, flowers etc. He will be a part of it all however he won’t really pick out anything he’ll let you do that, though he will give his opinion on what he likes if you ask him for it. but otherwise he would rather let you choose everything.

■ Becomes nervous and a bit annoyed about the wedding the closer it gets, only because he feels like its an opening to allow his family to criticize him the wedding itself or you. Though this is something he will keep to himself unless you ask him whats wrong, which you probably will because it’ll be pretty noticeable that something is on his mind.

■ Secretly finds the entire wedding to be rather stressful and will be greatly relieved once the wedding is over with. Though he won’t really mention this to you because he doesn’t want you to think he doesn’t like the wedding or doesn’t want to get married, because he does. He just doesn’t like to be on display and have the attention of your families and friends.

■ During the actual wedding he isn’t really nervous about anything except for accidentally saying the wrong thing or stumbling over his words. Which makes him a bit overly focused and serious because he doesn’t want to mess up in front of you.

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■ Whether youare already a mother or come home from a mission with a child he’ll besurprised at first and unsure how to really react because being a father or afather figure isn’t something he’ll have thought much about. Which can leavehim nervous and feeling awkward but he’ll just need to spend time with thechild and get comfortable with the idea and he’ll have no issues with becominga father to the child.

■ Is especiallymore comfortable the younger the child is for example he’ll find it easier witha baby up to age 3 or 4 but an older child such as 8 to 10 he’ll find harder tobecome part of their life and harder to get to know them especially with a morerebellious or angry child. But that doesn’t mean he won’t try he’ll do his bestno matter the situation.

■ He will wantto know about the child’s background such as if it’s your child he’ll want toknow what happened to their father and what kind of relationship the father haswith the child if any. Or if you were to find an orphan he’ll want to know howand where and what happened. If the child has had a rough childhood so far, hecan be a lot more loving and nurturing initially feeling like he should help makeup for the bad times.

■ Does becomevery protective and attached rather quickly especially the younger the childis, being very over protective and cautious of a toddler or baby only becausehe sees them as fragile and can even be worried about holding the himselfknowing he can be a bit clumsy and will be terrified of the child getting hurton his watch.

■ Doesn’tmatter if it’s a boy or girl either he will make the same effort to get to knowand spent time with the child either way, he can come to spoil the child andeven disliking being the strict one or telling them no to things which can butthe duty of being the strict one or disciplining up to you because he will havea hard time doing it especially if the child learns this and cries or pouts.