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- L.R.S.

Day 25 -- time is on your side So I have spent the last 25 days reflecting on every aspect of my life. What is still important, what has become less of a priority, who makes me feel alive, what toxic elements do I need to rid myself of, and who can I truly be myself around. As I listened to an amazing speech while driving to work, the concept of "fitting out" came to light. I sat there pondering all of the areas of my life that I fit in perfectly, somewhat, or completely fit out of. Do I want to fit in? Or is fitting out really a place where I find comfort. The answer depends on the crowd. My wellness journey has always been something I take pride in, have been judged for, have been supported with, and have held close to my soul. In speaking about my wellness journey I've noticed the place where I fit out the most is at my workplace. Never would I try to force my lifestyle on anyone, my goal is simply to inspire others and spread positivity, yet I am clearly judged by others. I know I challenge the mold in my environment... but that is okay for if I support one person to make a change in themselves for the better than it is worth it. Throughout my whole30 journey, I've heard such a spectrum of responses. The large majority of responses revolved around I could never do that, how do you have time for all that food prep, I can't change my diet cold turkey like that, you are so extreme -- you get the point. My major take away from all of this, is that it is really difficult for human beings to take accountability for themselves. They judge, feel judged, and struggle to take action. My wish for everyone is that they could shift their mindset around priorities. I can so SICK & TIRED of everyone's excuses. Imagine how we could shift perspective by taking ownership for ourselves. Say it with me... " I can do this, it just is not my priority.. I am not a victim" Deciding to do nothing, is still making a decision. Deciding to have a kale salad is making a decision. Eating Doritos for lunch is making a decision. I stand here today, vulnerable at times and with strength in others stating to you, I am happy to "fit out". Thank you whole30, my whole30 tribe, & my amazing support system for allowing me to fit in, in a world that challenges my beliefs. xxoo -- Amy

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Every now and then, I slip and it gets me. Usually messages from spirit saying fix your ish. Remeber, it's all the Matrix, mass generated illusions. That's been going around, I hear. We can do this fam, slow down and breathe. ---------------------------------------------------- Reposted from @healingvibesonline The best prediction for the future is you. No one is an energy oracle 😘. This is coming from someone who has studied astrology quite a bit: where can you get to the point where mercury in retrograde is simply an excuse? 😆 lol sorry. Outcreate it- you create your own reality. #novictims #illusion Some of the best creations I've made have been when mercury is in retrograde. And I've even signed contracts! Gasp!🤓😉 What if a group of people believing astrology like mercury in retrograde creates bad things then this in turn creates a huge energy field called a morphic field of chaos around you and everyone else instead of balance? What choice can you make to choose beyond that? Can you not step into that mercury retrograde morphic field and create another field of energy instead? Or if you're gonna step in 💩 at least acknowledge it. #truth #astrology #morphicfield #higherself #andromedanstarseed #multidimensional #witchesofinstagram #lightworkersofinstagram #starseedsofinstagram #shamanism #5d #pleidians #orion #arcturian #sirians #lyran #manifestation #selfrealization #frequency #ascension #maat (at Urban Shaman Company) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8y9RBuhUjq/?igshid=1mzffzuvs1xtp

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People ALWAYS leave out the part they played/what they did. #accountability #novictims #whatyoudo #tellitALL (at My Solace)

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🚬💉🚽💯 TRAFFIC JAM. ---------------- I'm sick of listening to what other people are telling me to do. Because for so long I wasn't to everybody that I rarely think for myself. I don't know exactly when we is exactly but I know it's not my job to please everyone to make everyone happy and to make sure everyone's okay because 99% of the time I'm not okay. But what's messed up is I feel like sometimes I'm okay with that as long as I'm doing something for somebody else and making their life easier. But it has gotten me nowhere in my life but used, abused, lied to, check advantage of, left alone, I lost my only reason for to a man that I married ... come on now don't like very much I don't know why I was ever with him but I guess that's most people. I don't hate him I don't visit him we're having Aiden. The thing that I'm upset and I'm all alone about he said I'm his mother no other mother. Granted he might get a better Head Start in life being Brandon. But I have a feeling at my son's going to be more like me he's not going to know where he belongs and his dad is not going to understand that I'm not going to be there she pick him up if he falls what to tell him he isn't the only one. He's special, not mentally but when he was born that day I started to believe in God again I seen God I feel God my son came from God he is God's child and he's so perfect and I know I'm not good enough for him but I also know never give up trying I'll never give up pushing myself to be a better person he was what I was put on this Earth for I made him I'm supposed to be taking care of him I'm supposed to be teaching him I'm supposed to be playing with him I'm supposed to be his role model sometimes it doesn't always end up that way. Tiffany can take away I'm his mother and will always have that Bond but I know what it's like to be on the other side of the fence and to be a stepmom. I'm grateful for her taking care of my son I'm grateful for things that she does. But to know what it's like to be married to him to know how alone she is and how long it's going to take her to be fed up with my -severely mentallly,emotionally and physically....narcissist of and ex husband. I'm not saying that to be mean I'm saying that because I know who he is and I know what he does that's not just going to change it doesn't work like that. I do feel lucky that I didn't end up with him because I feel like he would have made me into someone doesn't care anyone....-to be continued