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  By Peter Metzner At a lecture late in his life, Sigmund Freud was asked a simple question: What is needed for a successful life? His answer was equally simple—and enduring: Lieben und Arbeiten. To love and to work. More than a century later, Freud’s words still ring true. And yet, for many people in midlife, love feels complicated and work feels hollow. Despite outward success, there is often…

Do not project inner lack onto outer forms. External things like partner, cars, pretty places are not going to fullfill you inner lack because they are:

Impermanent. Everything decays, evolves, disappoints.

Not structurally designed to complete you. They exist for themselves, not to fulfill your psychological gaps.

Subject to projection .You don’t fall in love with a new car. You fall in love with the meaning you injected into it.

Filtered through your cognitive biases. You don’t experience the real. What you desire is your fantasy about reality. A modeled version skewed by trauma, memory, and expectation.

Out of your control . You can’t stabilize what isn’t yours. The more you grasp, the more you suffer.

I enjoy dressing in women's clothes to the point most of my closet is full. I used to crossdress on the weekends but, makeup takes time and those wanting you to. They are the ones confused and not curious (So don't get that confused). Anyhow I became more comfortable after an extednd hookup. That some still get enjoyment in seeing a boys in woman's clothes.

Lastly, I enjoy working out with music as much as possible. I believe that if you find enjoyment indulging in all your pleasures. Then you should indulge but not if more enjoyment brings your pleasure.

How Life Can Change in Just a Year

I still remember the time when I had this photo as a widget on my phone. Back then, I was sad, depressed, and stuck in a mindset that felt like a dark cloud. I was in a toxic relationship, dreaming of the day I could finally feel happy. It felt so far away, almost like a fairytale I’d never get to live.

That was just over a year ago.

Fast forward to today, and my life has completely transformed. I’m now married to the most wonderful man, and we’re counting down the days until we meet our baby boy—just 10 weeks to go! I can’t even begin to describe the joy and gratitude I feel for how far I’ve come. The version of me from a year ago wouldn’t believe it.

Of course, no journey is without its little bumps. Right now, the most noticeable one is heartburn. It’s a bit annoying, like a persistent fire in my chest during this third trimester, but honestly, compared to the challenges I’ve faced before, it’s nothing major.

Now listen, what if, hypothetically, like, everyone on earth, all of us, every single one we all agreed to take a random chimp, like, could be any chimp, selected via random number generator, the identity of the chimp is irrelevant, we take the chimp and we put it inside a cube, a white cube, always lit up on the inside, blank walls, there is a chair inside, the chimp is strapped to the chair, the chimp, it is immobilized, it will never move again, except for one of its hands, under the hand, there is a button. What does the button do? The button, it can do two things, it either dispenses sugar directly into the ape mouth, or electrocutes it in a controlled, non-lethal way, we don't want the chimp to die, we all agreed, remember, we need this chimp to remain like this for the longest possible time. inside the cube, out of the chimp's view (as to not create visual stimulation) there is a camera, the camera, it streams a live feed of the chimp, a broadcast. The broadcast, it is received all over the world. We create a new type of watch, which has the broadcast playing on it 24/7. Now the beautiful part is, this is the perfect solution to all problems. We all have our worries in life, we all suffer occasionally, but that will be a thing of the past when we all agree to do this. You tune into the broadcast after a hard day's work and you are happy, so happy that there is a chimp out there, a random chimp, its identity chosen through a random number generator after we all agreed to do this, that is having a worse time than you and that is very funny.

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