Do you ever find yourself hoping for the one, fantasizing about how you two will meet, about how they will be the right amount of amazing and cute made just for you? Then life throws this whole ass wrench at you and gives you the possibility of love but you avoid it like the plague because it wasn't what you imagined it was going to be? Then you feel like a bad person because you think you are being shallow and you remind yourself you aren't as cute as the people you are attracted to? Then you start second guessing your standards and start thinking you have to settle? No? Just me? Well thanks for coming to my TedTalk any way.