long rAMBLES
I think my dad is actually more feminist than my ma.
No, don’t go, hear me out!
My dad never slutshames, but my mother does. Dad never gave a shit about what gender my toys were supposed to be for he just wanted me to have fun, Ma tried to force stereotypically feminine toys on me (this is pre transition). Speaking of transition, my dad never questioned me on that and thought “yeah, it makes sense” whereas Ma was like “but are you sure?”.
I was always like a son to my dad though.
We talk about girls, movies, beer, life, and all sorts of trivial bullshit no one but us even care about. I can ask him things (if he’s in a good mood) and get a practical answer.
When I medically transition, he said he’d teach me how to shave and tie a tie like he would have done 10 years ago if I figured this shit out sooner.
He can be a shithead sometimes, but no one can accuse him of being transphobic or anti-feminist.
