#nodiapers

Sorry to interrupt my feed of stuff for y’all to beat off to, I just wanted to write out my stupid feelings on my anonymous blog because only assholes do this kind of shit on a public profile.

Met an amazing girl, super smart, funny, compassionate, adorable, geeky, she streams games and has a passion for helping others as well, the first date went amazing. We held hands, we kissed and hugged, it was pretty much the best date I had ever been on. The way our conversations were going it was pretty easy to infer she was kink positive too

Thought we’d go on a second date, but she and her therapist agreed she wasn’t really in the best place to be dating at the moment, which I’m totally glad that she is getting the help she needs and is helping herself first, like 1,000 percent happy, but I’m pretty disheartend.

Like, I shouldn’t be because it was only a couple phone calls and a single date and I might of been a little over-interested after a single date but there’s only been like 2-3 other women I’ve ever had a date with that made me feel this positive about a relationship. I’m shocked that this one didn’t work...

And like I could go to my mom and have her say “oh there’s plenty of fish in the sea” or “someday someone will be lucky to have you blah blah blah” but I don’t want to hear that because this one felt so right and it’s not even that she wasn’t feeling the same way, it’s just literally that it was the wrong time to meet. It’s devastating.

I have to sit at my desk at work for another 5 hours I guess. Tried to open up Hinge or Tinder to shoot another shot but I’m exhausted, I thought I crossed the finish line at least temporarily but I’m back in this fucking rat race.

Anonymous Parent posted to Master Mom on Facebook

3 hours ago near Garden Home, OR via mobile

My daughter spent her first night with no pull-ups! And no accidents (so far). She just turned 4. Any tips on how to be successful for this transition? We put a potty in her room and she used it once in the night. 

Master Mom Sounds to me like you are handling things perfectly. A potty in the room is a great idea!

Rewards are always a great incentive in motivating a preschool aged child. Rewards for a 4 year old are simple. Praise, hugs, and high fives are reward enough for some children. For others stamps or stickers work well. Try setting a goal with Elsa. If she goes 5 nights without an accident and earns 5 stickers you will go......get an ice cream, buy annew book or small toy, or go somewhere special. The incentive has to be something she would really enjoy.

If she helps to set the goal and pick the reward it will be a great motivator. You are well on your way to a diaper free home! 

Like · Reply · 1 · 2 hours ago via mobile

  Thank you for the encouragement. I'll have her choose a reward for the five-day thing. Great idea!