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legendofsim replied to your post “Sometimes I really wonder how the hell people have friends. Seriously,...”

I miss talking to you! I've been MIA because of classes but I'm back now and am always available to talk (:

I miss talking to you too! I’ve heard you had some pretty tough times with the typing and writing for awhile! Glad to see you back though!

catchingpixels replied to your post “Sometimes I really wonder how the hell people have friends. Seriously,...”

I'm sorry you have to go through this. The 'stayers' are really hard to find :(

Thank you <3 And they really are hard to find indeed. I feel like during last 10 years or so people got even crazier with moving on, they usually blame it on fast life, but as someone who lives at insane speed I can say it’s a bunch of bullshit.

charmed-sisters replied to your post “Sometimes I really wonder how the hell people have friends. Seriously,...”

I love talking to you! We can talk more I'll always reply sometimes later than others but I have an entire week off next week. Apart from sorting out and getting ahead in my story I'll always be around to make time for you if you want! Perfect illusion is blasting now again I changed my mind. ����✨

I love talking to you too <33 I know you get busy sometimes, but I always enjoy our talks! And yaay for the Perfect Illusion! I love that song! It’s so damn accurate!

nezusims replied to your post “Sometimes I really wonder how the hell people have friends. Seriously,...”

Lol idk how people do friendships. All of mine lasted for a short time because I wasn't that interesting as new people they met even if I was always for them.

Pretty much same here, though I’m constantly told my life is a movie-plot worthy. Usually people just get the entertainment and go have fun some place else. And then you see them post stuff about how no one is ever there for them... Human beings are weird.

melien replied to your post “Sometimes I really wonder how the hell people have friends. Seriously,...”

I relate to this so much! Sadly my best friends are online friends who live 4452727262711919 kilometres away, and irl I have pretty same situation as yours. I kinda wish I wasn't so kind to people because lots of them just use it :o

I really miss the online part. I used to be into personal blogging, before I spent a whole year drinking myself into oblivion and kind of dropped out (cuz for the most part I couldn’t even find my house, not to mention my computer), but it seems I can never fit in ever since.  Offline is harder, I can’t afford to be as open with people offline, cuz there’s reputation and other tricky stuff, career and personal relationships don’t go together all that well, so I kinda always relied on online stuff.  I often wonder if it’s my fault, like if I should share more of my personal stuff and so on, I kind of miss doing it, I like writing about personal stuff in artsy-wannabe style, but everything seems to annoy people these days so I kind of always wonder if I should.

jepensedoncjesims said: What a horrible feeling to go through, that you are there for people but they are not there for you when you need them. Personally, I am terrible at maintaining friendships and I accept/expect very little of people, but know I think the world of you, and the few times we have exchanged messages I have enjoyed. I am not the best company though but I am here for you whenever. Love.

You always come off as an example of perfect introvert to me! Because you share as much of yourself as you’re ready to share and give people as much as you can afford. Many introverted people do the opposite, they kind of all in for it at first and then say something like ‘you’re too much for me to handle’, which often happens right when I invested my part and they got the benefits of it.  You’re a very interesting company though! Seriously, your poetic mind always impresses me! 

roseoakmoonsims said: I’ve been spending all of my energy on commenting on things rather than holding conversations, so I guess that’s my bad. Sorry you feel so let down.

It’s can be hard to keep up with everything sometimes, but hey, comments are very appreciated too! 

justanothersimsblog said: I’d love to be your friend even if I know from the get go that some aspects of our personalities might clash (ex: extroverted vs introverted). I always have a hard time starting a conversation but always reply. It really sucks when your friends stop being your friends or disappear or simply live far away. That’s something that has been happening to me over and over forever. ✨

I tend to get along with people who are pretty opposite to me very often indeed! I suck at starting conversations online as well (even though I’m an extrovert), but if you don’t mind odd ‘starters’ we should be all good there xD

princessdejamars said: True friends are rare jewels and like any treasure difficult to find even if you had a map to locate them……