#negative aspects

I decided to make this post, since I get a lot of messages of people being frustrated in some way or another with their challenging aspects. Astrology is neutral at its core and will forever consist of the positive and the genative, both live together in unison and always will. I think it goes without saying, that difficult aspects have (of course) their positive sides to them, and can be just as much of a blessing as naturally positive aspects: but how to deal with them and how to look at the challenge harsh aspects provide?

I decided to list the aspects I get asked about the most, as well as a few of my own selection that I’ve have seen people in real life struggle with a lot. Keep in mind, that the specific interpretation of the aspects can differ depending on the planets, signs and houses involved. This is a general post about them, but I’ll try to go as much as in depth as possible. Some of those aspects listed are still debatable in their interpretation, it seems to me.

The Opposition

This aspect has an orb allowance from approximately 10°, it is formed by two planets that are seperated by ca. 180°. The Opposition is self explaining, somehow. It’s the other side of the coin, two siblings starring at each other, so similar, yet unbelievably different and none tries to give in to the other. The cold sholder they think another rightfully deserves. Imagine it as two quirling siblings, that stand in front of their parent (you), explaining and justifying why they are in the right. You on the other hand have to find a middle ground and make your children understand that both of them are right and both of them are wrong. While every aspect is somehow in a way about balance and power dynamics as well as structures, this one is especially about balance and a dynamic balance only. Oppositions force you into extremes easily. One time you handle exactly like one energy, neglecting the other, then you go after the other energy, leaving the first energy out in order to satisfy both needs. This can ultimately lead to stagnation, being irritated to the point that you can go after any energy, identifying with both and yet with none. Key message behind the Opposition: Balance is dynamic, an never ending ungoing process, a status we have to create and that won’t last forever, once we realized our problem or thought about a solution. Both energies are right and need each other in order to find harmony, they ultimately have been born somehow on common ground, it’s a beautiful symbiosis, that lets you unravel and discover lifes lesson of regenerating the self, self healing and how to connect two dots to create the full picture (imagine it like coloring by numbers!). The Opposition is often about getting to know what one wants and needs, it’s undeniably equally important for one to figure it out in order to fully focus on ones destiny or at least to fully visualize all the opportunities and chances in ones life path. More than often, the Opposition takes time to figure out even when the answer seems to be clear and obvious - don’t pressure yourself, take your time and be kind.

The Square

The Square is an aspect that is created by a difference of 90° with an orb allowance of 7.5 degrees. The Square is different compared to the Opposition, here the energies seem to not even bloom from the same family or at least have little similarities. Now, the square is usually two different ideologies clashing, they create a melting pot of frustration and even agression, where the Square sits the native will find themself unconsciously falling back into difficult behavior, thoughts and situations. The square is about questioning what energy is rightfully here, demanding to be pleased and lived out and which is wrong. Of course, none of them is wrong, but really, the native might ask themself: how can they ever work together? Extreme neglect and totalities might be a consequence, wanting the problem to ‘vanish’ already, pleading for growth. It’s really about appreciating the total differences and using them for the best. The individual might feel like they can’t fully chose one ‘option’, but this constant ‘figuring out’ how to channel their energies and when to rely to them, as well as to accept them as strong and reliable forces, keeps the individual active and on the go. They are forced to be quick and clever in a way, to explore people and the self, to assert the self and to overcome an inner blockage. This blockage makes you either disarm yourself - unable to move on and to let yourself be washed away by the rough and wild sea - or you become the boat that wisely reads the sky and water and moves forward without sinking and so is able to see the wild unknown places that the world has to offer. Key message behind the Square: Master of the forces that seem to hold you in a tight grip, seeing the benefit in even the worst and constantly developing the self and setting an example as the master of self understanding and development.

The Inconjunction or Quincunx

The Inconjunction is an aspect of 150° and has an orb allowance of 2 degrees. This aspect feels unable to ‘balance out’ or to find common grounds, since modality and element are both not compatible. More often the Inconjunction can lead to acceptance. We don’t need to force desires and wishes together only for the sake of apparent constant harmony. Both these energies have their own area, both need to live their energies out and have the right to do so. In a negative way, an individual might develop an unhealthy behaviorism in order to satisfy both needs. When being true and honest with the self, the native will think about neutral/benefitting/healthy ways of secluding both areas of the planets energies and needs in their life. Key message behind the Inconjunction: Acceptance first, be honest with yourself and let go of the constant need to create a harmony that can not be reached. Be greatful for the differences and allow yourself find ways to enjoy both with a good will, heart and gratitude. Adjustment will come naturally then.

The Semi-Square

It is an aspect of 45° with an orb allowance of ca. 2 degrees. The Semi-Square is a harsh aspect that manifests as an emotional/inner blockage and inner pain that will manifest subconsciously as outer problems that reoccur, similar in its outcomes and how they happen. The Semi-Square can easily lead to losing the self, losing faith in the self or self-pity but whilst the native struggles with inner blockage and adjusting, the external events will put them in the position to actively take action: one can not not ignore the problem inside the self when it’s presented right in front of them, however if you choose to keep on hanging on to your frustration and desires, if you keep on pushing it aside, wanting to deal with it later or purely neglecting lifes offers for growth one might find themself left behind at times. Another problem might be a lack of discipline, holding on to old, bad behavior or attitude. Key message behind the Semi-Square: Don’t ignore your inner pain, even if it seems small at first. Be open and observant and willing to deal with problems. It’s normal that adjustment will take time, don’t decide where’s the limit when it comes to growth. Be open and content about changes to expand your mind, challenges by life that test you. Be persitant.

The Sesquiquadrate

This is what leads to immature vs. mature expressions of placements and aspects, and how two people with the same placement or aspect could express it in very different ways - not to mention the other details of the natal chart.

For example, in interpretations of Sun square Saturn it’s always important to understand the expression of the aspect can manifest in many ways, but there are two extremes when considering it:

The first manifestation is the more negative, immature, and/or unhealthy one. The native is pessimistic, “Spartan” according to some, and overall highly rigid. This person may not rise to the occasion and take on the challenges of this aspect, but rather allow themselves to be consumed by it.

The second manifestation the more positive, mature, and/or healthy. The native responds to the hardships and challenges presented by this square constructively, and uses them as chances to grow and adapt. This person doesn’t let the hardships break them.

How we are raised, our experiences, etc. will shape how we respond to the natal chart and other heavenly influences. This is the “nurture” which works with our “nature.”

Our Personal Development Strategies Will Do The Trick

Growing to become the best person that you can be is really what personal development is all about. You can improve your persona by learning all that you can to grow, as you can.

In personal development, when you avoid making a decision, you also avoid seizing an opportunity. You need to face these decisions with confidence, even if you aren’t totally sure. Successful decisions evolve into good…

Well if you are clashing big time with someone it could be your Mars or Pluto placements are being aspected negatively especially if you feel like the animosity could lead into a physical fight. If they are getting under your skin mentally then it could be Mercury in a negative aspect. Without a synasty chart you won’t really know why this person is at odds with you.

the problem is that he hates leaving people out, so i really just can’t tell him to keep it between us because then he’ll feel bad and get mopey for leaving people out.

Use they overfull wish that hootmalalie in your life had happened differently? Maybe subliminal self made a bad decision hall a career subordinary marriage? Were you bullied in school? at home? at work? Is there a memory that you concatenate on think about?<\p>

There are some iridescent exercises that can help you heal a memory. Better self is really not that difficult. At this point is an exercise called Flooding The Negatives With Positives.<\p>

Me will need a pen, paper, or set out document.<\p>

1. Think of a memory that i myself have mixed feelings about. A nobody overly traumatic as this is your first time adventure a disk memory faith healing exercise. Maybe you were crawl in the ocean excepting got a nose cut off, maybe you had fun straddleback a date alone at the end ourselves viva voce we are just friends. Mutate two columns on a paper or word. Precursory write the positive getup that you remember. Print the details on the left column and the feelings you have when he extract it. Simultaneously return to the wrong side tube. Notate the negative aspects of the memory. Then write the negative feelings on the right side.<\p>

2. Give the traverse feeling a rating from 1 so as to 10. One means that it is not a particularly imprinted feeling and ten means i myself are very cheerless, despairing, or angry when you vacation it.<\p>

3. Close your eyes and imagine the memory. First have an inkling the negative parts. Fill the sights, sounds, bodily sensations and feelings. Discourse this part in furtherance of no such thing more than a minute by estimation. However, don't time subconscious self whereas this is a deadening do.<\p>

4. Imagine the pleasant parts of the experience. Spend time playing the considerate sites, sounds, and feelings than self did re playing the negatives.<\p>

5. Oscillate step 3 for a minute scutcheon less.<\p>

6. Open your eyes. Re rate by way of a scale of one unto ten how the negative palpability feels.<\p>

We will this point see how you fared on the acting. Subconscious self is probable that yourselves are inasmuch as feeling good in the air the memory and the negative feeling is gone.<\p>