Lately people have been asking me, how I can go so long without seeing my SO or hearing from him or talking to him as much as I'd like. But the thing I hear most is, how can I go without sex. And seriously. It's not hard at all. Having sex with him wasn't about the getting physical part (although that was great too) it was about connecting on a different level, it was not lust or anything else. It was love. Pure love. And my advice is, if you're in a relationship for sex, that's toxic. It isn't going anywhere, might as well just go for the casual sex from anyone than pretending you love them. And yes. I do make jokes about being sexually deprived. Because I am. But I'm okay with that, I don't have to lower myself to, cheating, or "taking care of myself" because dammit I'm in love with the man. Not the idea of him. And not what he does to me. People need to learn the difference between lust, and love. Because they are so different. I'm tired of all these sexually crazed people thinking that's all I want him for. I wonder how all these people would manage to keep relationships without sex. COMMUNICATE.
