Sorry if this question is a little too general a question, but here goes. I'm writing a story set during and after a nuclear-ish apocalypse and the main characters are cadets in a military academy. A lot of the conflict revolves around leadership through a harsh and stressful environment. My question is this: what are some behaviors you've noticed in CO/NCO's that indicated their in/competence? What actions motivated you? Give me some ways for a leader to fail their men or earn their trust.
This is actually a really good question! Thank you for reaching out to me!
Ā Well, I think everyone wants a different type of leader, so this is just my opinion. But what matters to me, in order, is the following:CompetenceNCOs and officers are in their position for a reason. They're in charge of soldiers while at the same time performing the task the army employed them for. It's not easy work, and very often a leader will falter either in performing their job or caring for their troops, or God forbid both. If an NCO is incompetent at maintaining his soldiers or an officer is incompetent at performing his job, that's a very heavy hit on our morale. One person who can't perform their duties hurts all of us. Furthermore, I'm more than willing to forgive someone for any of the following attributes as long as they're competent.Ā And this competence spans all things. Soldier care, equipment maintenance, and job knowledge/instruction ability. If Iām an E-2 and the E-5 directly in charge of me is my MOS, I should be able to ask them any standard question about my job and they should either know the answer or know where to find the answer. If my NCO doesnāt know shit about what I do, why should I trust them to oversee what Iām doing?AttitudeSoldiers depend on their leadership for a lot of things. Instruction, well being, paperwork, and especially morale. If my NCO is a completely asshat and no one in the platoon likes them, our morale will be low, and we won't care that much about the mission.Ā Now, I'm not saying the leadership has to be soft, because that's a whole 'nother problem, and I'm not saying they can't push us, because that's what they're there for. But it's essential for leadership to build a genuine rapport with their soldiers, or else we'll just wind up resenting them. Personally, the chill factor for me is very important in a leader. Someone who's got a stick up their ass just frustrates me; someone who thinks the only way to run a unit is to yell and punish frustrates me even more. Positive motivation is always superior to negative. OrganizationIs your leadership doing their job? Are they maintaining their paperwork? Are they aware of the current mission? Do they know what we need to be doing? Do we have to stay late because they forgot to tell us to do a task? Do we have to redo a task because they instructed us wrong the first time? Are our promotions and awards delayed indefinitely because they keep forgetting something? Our leaders need to have their shit in order or else everyone below them is going to be out of order. We understand when it's not someone fault, when our superior's superior is the one making a bad call, but there's almost nothing more infuriating to a soldier than leadership that, through their own actions, has no idea what's going on.SoftnessThis encompasses both work ethic and personality. If my NCO is too forgiving, too lenient, too easy, too lazy, I don't want them. There's a big difference between being chill and being soft. NCOs and officers NEED to be able to push us and step up to the plate. They need to know when Enough is Enough and when to put their boots down. Having a leader with no backbone is worse than having no leader at all. Laziness is a disease in leadership as well; they do have to delegate, but they absolutely need to pull their own weight as well, and we can tell the difference between a leader who's skimping on the work by passing it off and who's adequately utilizing their resources by delegating.Ā
I think these four things are probably the thing I look for most. Softness is the least bothersome trait to me because, due to the nature of Soft leaders, it's easy for someone who does know what they're doing to sorta replace them/nudge them aside and become a de facto leader. How a leader can fail their troops:-not being there during the hard times, and I mean not only combat but during unpleasant conditions like cold, heat, low food and low water. NCOs who hole up in a warm tent while their soldiers are out shivering will earn some resentment. -not ensuring their troops well being. NCOs ensure their troops are fed, watered, and rested the best they can manage. A good NCO will recognize when it's time to give their squad a break, even if it's only for an hour or two. It's true that some dire situations require drastic measures, but great NCOs will replace their soldiers in those circumstances so that they can get an hour or two of sleep or enough time to swallow a cup of coffee. I've known NCOs who were practically ready to fist fight someone to get food for their troops, and you bet we had their backs from then on.-blaming their troops for things that are their fault and taking credit for things their troops have done. NCOs are responsible for everything their troops do, good or bad. If the NCO messed up, that NCO needs to be upfront about how their fuck up resulted in their troops fucking up. -overreacting to failure and under reacting to accomplishment, not to mention uneven treatment. Sometimes all we need is a pat on the back or a handshake and to be told we did good and they're appreciative of our efforts. Sure, other rewards are even nicer, but often I was happy just to know my leadership thought I did a good job. Sometimes the only thing that kept me going was my leadership telling me I was the best at my job and they depended on me. Whether it was true, I don't know; I hope so. But the point is that if our achievements aren't acknowledged, we stop wanting to achieve. Similarly, it's important to punish us if we fuck up, but the punishment has to match the fuck up. We often know the difference between fair punishment and unfair punishment, and trust me, we DEFINITELY know when we're being targeted with harsher punishment than someone else who made the same mistake. Consistency is important. -we hold grudges because the army is literally high school. We remember when someone has wronged us and hadn't made good on it. It takes a lot to regain the trust of soldiers who've already lost their respect for you. Demanding respect because of a rank when it hasn't been earned can turn a number of soldiers against you. But if you fix yourself and start being a good leader again, we can forgive and move on.Ā It sounds like NCOs and officers basically give everything to their troops, and that's exactly how it should be. Your troops will reward you with full strength effort, motivation, and tolerance for the inevitable bullshit. Especially of NCOs, they need to distract their soldiers from the pure bullshit that is the army, because it is pure bullshit, and we're very fucking aware of that. Furthermore, PNN, the private news network, is far reaching. Lower enlisted are not shy about talking shit about a bad leader, and it'll get around. Just the same, a good leader will see PNN return favorable reviews, and often if those favorable reviews get high enough there will be positive rewards from up high. Of course, this is all assuming a perfect world. Very frequently bad NCOs are sneaky and bad officers are asskissers, and they somehow avoid the karma of being a bad leader while good leaders fall wayside. Sometimes good leaders get into trouble and lose their rank, sometimes good leaders are overweight and are treated like shitbags, sometimes good leaders are disabled in some way and people look down on them. In reality, thatās s the way the cookie crumbles sometimes. Equivalently, some lower enlisted are pure ass and don't appreciate or respect even a good leader. A lot of us had very low tolerance for leaders who weren't completely perfect, and were quick to turn on them. I'd really like to say that those people probably had some real shit leaders in the past, and they'll come around if they get to meet a genuinely good leader. Some people are just fucking brats though; fuck them tbh. Ungrateful lower enlisted just breeds aloof and demoralized leaders. It's a two way street. Personally, I have a lot of respect for anyone who can perform their duties as an NCO or officer even 75% of the time. I cannot stress enough that being in a leadership position is not sunshine and roses.
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