#my blocklist

The Cardsassian fuckers (and anyone who reblogs from them):

perils/peril, lady/vean, gul/jerry, itsaburgerwith/everythingonitnow (also known as itsweyouns/burgernow i’m pretty sure), mostly/hydratrash, raven/amore, whatis2/plus2, fuck/yourstupideyebrows, writhing/beneathyou, writer/tobridge

soft/glittertrek is a name i see FREQUENTLY, but they harassed several of my friends

other urls that i’m strongly not fond of for a variety of reasons that i will provide if asked directly but are not an instant unfollow if i see them:

Doesn’t surprise me. They’re an aphobe. And their callout post is a) about a list I took down within days of it going up and b) completely ignoring the fact that all these “gay disabled, trans, and nonwhite people “ were aphobic or if you remove a few of those qualifiers transphobic, homophobic, racist, or ableist. Like the people were put on that list because they were hateful people with hateful bigoted beliefs.

Aphobes just can’t seem to grasp that hating aspec people is actually something to be ashamed of and that is harmful for aspecs, and so they belong on “block for you own safety so you don’t have to deal with these people who hate your existence” lists. Although due to the way some of those vile bigots use those lists, they need to be separate lists not just one (which is why I took it down when i realized what was happening with it.)

Like ah yes, I hate disabled people because disabled aphobes were on a list for being aphobic and I didn’t want other aspecs within the disabled community to have to interact with them, and that when I realized they were being put in danger because of the list I took it down because I don’t care about the safety of people in my community? (This was sarcasm, I care about othered disabled people in case that wasn’t clear.)

And as a CSA victim I’m totally comparing myself and others to pedophiles /sarcasm. Like just because a person is one thing doesn’t prevent them from being another kind of bigot. In this case, most of those people were aphobes. Aphobes just think it’s ok to be aphobic and ignore that’s what got them on the list (that I took down because again i realized why putting all the people on the same list was a bad idea.)

DO. NOT. HARASS. ANYONE.

That blocklist was provided for you to block them so you would not have to deal with anyone that is detrimental to your health or safety.

Because the blog doesn’t believe aces and aros are inherently lgbt+ or queer and that they have multiple times told people not to interact with their posts if they believe aces and aros are.

I figured that would happen since I’ve made it my policy to simply block and delete any asks anon or not, and to not respond to any of the posts aphobes are tagging me in.

(For the record, I do care about anti-semitism, and abuse survivors and members of the lgbt+ and queer communities, and those of many others. I also care about the safety of a-spec people who are bullied, harassed, + more and invalidated by aphobes.)

                                                                                                 Anonymous said:

hi, so in that block list, there are people who are visibly upset abt being put there. many "aphobe" discoursers are jewish and trans, and lumping them together with neo nazis and terfs are making them reasonably terrified. if you could please respect their wishes and remove them from the list, it would be really great.            

I’m going to address this ONCE. Any further asks about this will be deleted unanswered.

I am not going to remove anyone from the list because they are uncomfortable being on the same list as someone else.

When it is just an aphobe blocklist, there are countless blogs going “hey, why didn’t I get put on here? I’m aphobic. I could use the promo.” I’ve also seen enough posts by aphobes to know that none of you think aphobia is real or that it is something that is terrifying and damaging to all a-specs.

Being an aphobe is BAD. It is not something you should be proud of. It is not something you should call yourself. It is not something you should be.

That list has APHOBES alongside terfs and neo-nazis and pedophiles because all of them are something that people should block for their own safety and mental health. Regardless of whatever other identities a person has, if they contribute to a harmful hateful group, they are on the list so that they can be BLOCKED.

After rooting around my blocklist tag and then in their blog for the common block reasons, I’m thinking “by accident” since the only thing showing up is a reply to an ask with an edit saying it sounded like a TERF and acknowledgement of it/discussion saying they aren’t.

It’s likely I found one of their posts reblogged by a Terf out of context and blocked them thinking they were also one. From my looking through their blog now, THEY ARE NOT.

I’ve removed them from the blocklist. Thank you for asking.