#moriyamabites

They know I’m obsessive but they still refuse to spend time with me at times. Talk with me. Don’t make me always be the one to text first. Show me you care. Show me that I’m not something to fill your time with.

I want to be worth something to you, not someone that you go to only as a last resort.

I’ve had interactions with people that I didn’t know if I’d enjoy, but once I sat down to actually get to know them, they become friends. But that was different towards the ones I didn’t want to speak with based on instinctual feelings. Something I couldn’t put my finger on, but feeling like something there is dangerous, and that has yet to fail me.

I understand that it’s human to judge people, but at the same time, I don’t understand why we let it get the best of us.

I’ve seen people judge people simply online because of something that they think is different or want to put everyone into boxes.

I think the primary thing that gets to me is how someone with BPD can so easily demonize someone else with BPD or another Cluster B disorder and say things about them. Such as seeing others with BPD symptoms talking about how they despise or hate other people with the same disorder labeling their experiences and connecting with the yandere label. I see nothing wrong with it.

Obsessive love is painful, it hurts. Seeing someone you love that hurts you, even with the smallest things, hurts. I, along as others I know, consider ourselves yans because we are overly obsessive to the point it hurts, we’d do anything, and it makes us feel more comfortable with our identities.

If someone uses it in comfort of an identity, I don’t see why someone has any right to say “all of these people are mocking a disorder,” when that isn’t true. Some people can be mocking, others are connecting to an identity that makes them feel more comfortable with who they are.

It’s never a bad thing to try and understand someone before jumping to conclusions on how they present themselves. But, maybe, I just don’t understand the new concept of social media and how hatred continues to blossom.

I came back to yanblr yesterday, and found your account! I just wanted to say that it's good to finally find another platonic yandere here!! You're not alone in this!!!

Hi!!!!! It’s good to see another platonic yan!