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My grandmother threw a hissy fit when she learned I was getting accommodations in college. She thought it would go on my record, so I'd be unable to get a job + 'permanently dependent' (my mom explaining literally none of that's true made 0 impact. People other than her needing help is her big hang-up. Atm she's annoyed that I need help w/ a lot of tasks /even though I'm post-surgery and largely bed-bound/)
THIS...IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED WITH MY MOM oh my gosh...but less âannoyedâ and more âterrified that someoneâs going to stamp WEIRD AND MENTALLY DISABLED PERSON in huge red letters on every piece of paperwork iâll ever appear on in my lifeâ. I get the âbut you should be able to do that anyway without help or doing things differentlyâ chat on a Regular Basis...some people just arenât very good at empathizing with people who are going through things that they havenât personally experienced, and itâs super tiring. Iâm so sorry you have to deal with that!Â










