My two cents about the Song of Achilles (from someone who has read it and is almost halfway through the Iliad):
The Iliad was written somewhere around the eighth or seventh century. It wasn't even written down for a while and passed down orally instead. And we must remember that it was, foremost, a religious text. This means that it has been twisted and changed depending on the religious beliefs of the people way back then.
What I mean by this is that there in no 'canon superiority' that you can impose here. You can't just walzt up to the author and go, "Hey, what does this part right here mean?" (unless you can summon the dead, in which case go ahead). Besides, media can be interpreted in many ways, regardless of how the author feels about it (something something people have different perspectives).
The Song of Achilles is just that. A different interpretation told from a different perspective. Liking it doesn't mean that you should throw out the (somewhat) canon version but you it doesn't mean that you need to throw away your TSOA interpretation either. They aren't all that contradicting in the first place.
You can/should let others believe that that Achilles was a pretty boy and was uhh 'exploring' Patroclus's body in their shared tent. (Besides there is a lot of evidence that this is how it was meant to be read in the first place and then homophobia happened).
Just to clarify I don't think that Patrochilles wasn't canon I was just thinking about how the author (Miller) rationalized Achilles having war brides. Then again she would have canceled in that case too so oh well.
TSOA was advertised to modern audiences and they probably wouldn't have sympathized with Achilles if they knew he was someone who not only murdered the male relatives of women but also then forced them to sleep with him.
So yeah, the Iliad was filled with gay people but no one ever said that they were good people on top of that.
TSOA is a fanfiction of the Iliad and a damn good in that (IMHO). It just takes away some of the bad parts from the characters that would have made modern audiences reasonably hate the main character.


















