#missingmyex

Sometimes people get back together.

Sometimes they grow.

Sometimes they apologize.

Sometimes they finally understand what went wrong.

But sometimes they come back because the attachment is still active.

Because loneliness makes the past feel softer.

Because familiarity feels safer than uncertainty.

Because missing someone can feel a lot like meaning.

One of the hardest things after a breakup is realizing that an ex coming back is not the same thing as a relationship becoming healthier.

The question isn't only:

"Will they come back?"

The question is:

"What would actually be different if they did?"

For every couple that reconnects in a healthier way, there are others who restart the same pattern, the same arguments, and the same ending.

Missing someone is real.

Wanting them back is real.

But neither automatically tells you whether the relationship is right.

Sometimes love brings people back together.

Only growth makes it last.

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idek why anymore he doesn't care about me anymore and said he was already over it

but boy was so nice while we were together 🥺 plus that D was 🔥🔥🔥

You have been going through the roughest patch in your life. You have been crying, you been ill and been so distant. Who knew the one moment you decide to change for the better can backfire. You have done wrong and claimed your wrongs to make things better. I lost my best friend, the person you thought would stay by me and never let go. The terrible part of all this is that you still love him. Why still be in love with someone who wasn't happy? You should've never changed at all and stayed the same Bre he was in love with in the beginning. At this point, you have to accept this fate and try to make it through the day. You'll never know what the future holds now but all you can do is just pray for a great and brighter future involving the one you love so deeply. How can four years affect you so hard like this to the point of feeling so depressed? The connections that were made, the love you both made, the soul-bonding from two people who seen each other for who they really were. It all happened so fast within a blink of an eye. If there was ever a moment, you would start over again and just never change. Everyone would be happy again and you would be happy Bre. For now, just try.

Sincerely,

Your Heart