Day 3: Destiny/Soulmates/Twin Flames
Sometimes discussed in terms of a âmirror soulâ or âsoul connectionâ, a twin flame is the other half of your soul. It is theorized that a soul can split into two after ascending to a high frequency. Thereafter, the soul lands in two different bodies. If you compare a twin flame vs. soulmate, itâs important to note that a soul mate is someone who is made from the same kind of energy as you, but who has never existed in fusion with you. So, although soul mate connections are highly significant, an encounter with a twin flame is on another level entirely.
The search stage involves a strong sense of yearning and an acute awareness that something is lacking in your life.
This second, awakening stage is where you physically meet, and the awareness of your compatibility hits you head on. Sometimes, you wonât be together for very long, but even brief contact is enough to make you aware that something special is happening
The test stage of a twin flame experience is defined by trying to understand your relationship with this other person. It is all about establishing boundaries, testing your limitations
While twin flame love can be euphoric, it also inevitably involves a crisis stage. While this is often unpleasant, the good news is that it can also catalyze a deeper, more stable bond in the longer term. This stage involves significant anxiety and worries about your bond with your twin flame, and the crisis can be just about anything.
Stage 5. The Running Or Chasing Stage
No matter what form the crisis stage takes, it is always followed by a running or chasing stage. You may be in either role, and you and your twin flame may switch back and forward between the two roles. This stage revolves around one twin flame distancing themselves, often out of fear of confronting the level of intimacy that the two of you are capable of experiencing. The twin in this role will be in pain and will feel very defensive and resistant. Meanwhile, the other twin flame will give chase, believing that the bond is worth fighting for and working on.
In the surrender stage, both of you will start to give up on a previous need to control your relationship. In this context, surrendering isnât about giving up on your connection, but rather about accepting that neither of you can escape from destiny.
When you and your twin flame move on to the reunion stage, youâll have a sense of relief at the fact that balance is being restored.
In going through the previous, challenging stages, youâll have learned a lot about yourselves and about the potential attached to the unique kind of love you have found.
