We've been planning to buy a countertop dishwasher.Â
He found one in our price range that was full size, but portable, so it would work with our kitchen sink, like a countertop one would.Â
I said something about how it seems cool, but where will we store it when itâs not in use?Â
He considered what I said, and then came up with a spot that he told me about.Â
He explained how it has a flat top, so it would also serve as additional counter space, sort of.Â
âOkay.â I said.Â
âYouâll be using it more, though...so you can overrule me on this if you have a strong feeling.â he offered.Â
I was comfortable with him making the decision, and told him so.Â
Sometimes we have âmeta-talksâ in the midst of our âregularâ conversations. It isnât for everyone, Iâm sure. But I love how casual and natural it feels for us.Â













