#men are garbage

The single most infuriating thing about men is their goddamn sense of entitlement to women. To our bodies, to our time, to our money, to our labor, to our attention, to our affections, our spaces, our everything. They honestly think that everything we ever do or say should be done in service of them, and they lose their shit and throw ridiculous, toddler-esque tantrums (or, as I like to call them, mantrums) any time that turns out not to be the case. Because the very idea of women as full, complex human beings existing independently of men for our own purposes is dumbfounding to them, and they will come up with every excuse to argue the opposite at us, that we owe them somehow, even though they have never done anything but treat women like shit and there is no logical reason why that should be true. And they never do anything for women in return for all of that. Not housework, not finding the clit, not defending our basic rights, not anything. Instead, they have developed misogynistic multi billion dollar industries like makeup, the sex industry, plastic surgery, and the diet industry in order to make money while abusing women even further. They are so adamant about their entitlement to us that many of them even become violent to us whenever they don't get their way. Honestly, the entitlement of men is the single biggest reason why I wish there was some way to speed up the whole "Y chromosome is going extinct" thing. Because, honestly, dealing with men and their sickening entitlement complexes with regard to women makes them nothing but a headache to me, and I truly despise them and wish they were all just simply well and truly gone.

If someone condemns misogyny and your first instinct is to say "not all men," that means you're more concerned with upholding the reputation of masculinity than with listening to the experience af women. The way you show it's not all men is by condemning misogyny, not by defending men.

i just found the "male having a huge fetish on radical feminists" side of the internet and... huh. i wish i hadn't. i was feeling a bit better when i didn't know that there's a group of males out there fetishizing us hard because we're "strong headed women that would make perfect femdoms (for them/other women, and in this case they'd just love to watch) / that would be fun to tame". like they love the idea of fucking us/hurting us because of course they do, they see women standing up for themselves and not being afraid of being controversial, and perfectly understanding their bullshit, so of course they want to degrade us and use us as sex toys