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plural pin where her alters look like her different physical forms from bfdia/idfb....... and carry the emotions/memories associated with those eras...........
Pin is plural!
Her alters are all memory/emotion holders that take the appearance of her different “eras” and hold the specific emotions/memories from those “eras”
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System roles do not have to be your entire identity. You do not have to conform to the stereotypes of them, and you do not have to hold your role alone or without help. You do not need to keep them forever, either. They may be what you were placed into the system to help with, and they may be something you are good at--but it does not have to be you forever.
I am a persecutor, and that does not mean I should be treated differently or harmed. Being a persecutor does not mean that everyone should be scared of you by default either.
Protectors should not be expected to be strong and emotionless walls to put in front of everything all the time. They do not need to be tools.
Comforters might need a break to unload their own stress and need comfort in turn. They do not need to give all of themselves to everyone else and never expect help back.
Littles may not be littles forever, and should not be devalued just because they are children. They are just as real and alive as any other system member and should be taken into account.
Trauma/memory holders might need help to cope with the things they hold, and sometimes when the time is right it means sharing that burden. Maybe there is no right time, but they deserve support whether they can share those memories or not.
Gatekeepers may need a break from controlling switches or access to front, and should be allowed one if needed. Gatekeeping can be a lot of work.
Hosts do not need to do everything for the body or system all the time. Sometimes, being the host of a system can be hard, and support and breaks are deserved.
Systems often put a lot of weight on roles, and it can impact the way that those who have them can feel about their role. It is okay to fit into your role, but it is also okay to not fit, or to end up not fitting your role over time. Some headmates can feel like a failure if they do not uphold their role, some can feel like they have no other choice even if they wanted to not perform it. But a role is a description, it is not an essence of who you are and will forever be. This may be non-traditional but we use roles exclusively as self descriptors so that we do not get wrapped up in what we "should be". If the label no longer fits, or if you need help more than you might have in the past, that is okay.
Be kind to yourselves, and be kind to your other headmates.
buckle in, this is a long one!!
contains: positive, negative, happy, sad, angry, & fearful memory holder terms
thank you to @my-brain-dump-lol for the idea/request!!!
positive memory holder
an alter that specifically holds only positive memories. can also be called a good memory holder.
⠀ ✶ ⠀ Memory Holder Memory Issues⠀ · ⠀DNI
【 ✦ 】 a flag for system members that are memory holders with memory issues.
✦⠀Coined by The Prince.⠀Self—indulgent.
✧⠀no spoons or pt for flag IDs. providing or help much appreciated ⚔️
✦⠀Notes⠀⋯⠀gift for bestie wife @lustayru 🦚 inspo from @xenic-nd s memory holder flag
✧⠀tag list . @cheonsua @radiomogai @io-archival @kaetria @abyssblooded @erveinangel @houndsic @viocutix @shwys @castodust @shiftedbug @minesung @hyarice @dollpvince @moriitch ask to be removed or added
Quasi-Trauma Holder and Quasi-Memory Holder
Quasi-Trauma Holder - An alter that rather than holding the trauma itself or holding the emotions that was experienced related to the trauma at the time, they hold the emotions associated with remembering the trauma. Or feeling more connected to/affected by the trauma after it has been remembered than other alters. They often only hold emotions related to trauma the collectively already knows about.
Quasi-Memory Holder - An alter that rather than holding the memory itself or holding the emotions that was experienced related to the memory at the time, they hold the emotions associated with remembering the memory. Or feeling more connected to/affected by the memory after it has been remembered than other alters. They often only hold emotions related to memories the collectively already knows about.
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🌈Nightmare Holder Flag🍭
A flag for alters who hold the memories of nightmares
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[ID: Nine small pixel hearts of system role flags, in order trauma holder, caretaker, gatekeeper, memory holder, dissociation holder, pseudonaut, symptom holder, architect, and communicator. End ID]
Tumblr makes them bigger than they actually are click to see correct size or check out the rentry in the pinned post
Creators/Flag creators
@xenic-nd (inactive) Trauma Holder, Caretaker, Memory Holder, Symptom Holder
@the-silent-fellowship Gatekeeper, Dissociation Holder
@m-grouped (Inactive) Architect
@polyextranth (Inactive) Communicator
??? Pseudonaut
