thoughts on that guy stating wakana gojo had a twisted sense of boundaries after he revealed that he and marin werent dating before
Hi! Tbh, I read that and was very confused. Maybe I'm forgetting something because I read the earlier chapters a while ago, but I never got the sense that he and Marin crossed boundaries with each other????
He *could* mean the amount of work Gojo did for Marin, like how her dad was upset with her for having him make so many of her costumes? But they worked that out with each other fairly, and Gojo approached it like an apprenticeship imo, so I don't think it was too weird. The one thing I can think of that was totally avoidable was making Gojo measure her 💀 Realistically, she could have gone to a lingerie shop, like the type that will give you a bra measurement consultation (those were free when I was a kid). Or, as a model, she probably knew someone who could help her get her measurements and deliver those TO Gojo. But I doubt her classmates would know that happened, especially that guy.
Maybe he means that Gojo spent a lot of time with Marin and doing things based on her whims, considering they weren't dating?? That's all I can think of. From an outsider perspective, Gojo isn't her best friend and certainly not her oldest, so how is he suddenly making her clothes all the time, and taking her photos, and tagging along on all things cosplay related (and just in general!)? Maybe? I don't necessarily agree with the logic, but I do see how a teenage boy can get there.
Like, if you have a hard separation between platonic activities a friend does versus what a partner "should be" doing, I can see what he means by boundaries. For example, the "influencer boyfriend" stereotype follows gf around and takes good pics for her? Maybe he meant Gojo seemed like he was filling that role? But I disagree with him because I've gone out with friends and seen other girls out together, and getting each other good photos when you're somewhere fun is an entirely common thing. Besides the fact that he makes her cosplays, I always thought Marin's and Wakana's friendship was normal and cute. And he's the only person she knows who will also read the manga she's into, so of course they'd spend a lot of time together even if they're recent friends. At the beginning of the series, one of her friends said Marin was getting excited again while talking about a character, but it didn't seem like any of them made an effort to look into the source material themselves. And that's not saying they're bad friends. That's just not a hobby they share, so I can see how Gojo being willing to play games and watch shows with Marin becomes a factor that's unique in their friendship. But that's also a very normal part of friendships!
Tl;dr: I can imagine what he might mean, but I don't fully agree with him. But I think that's also part of the message of this manga. Marin, Wakana, and the other cosplayers pursued hobbies they loved even if others judged them for it. As long as it's right for them, that's what matters. Marin and Wakana's relationship might seem weird to others, but as long as it's right and fair for them both, who cares?