i have an ask about Maya’s mom! She seems like such a badass, dealt such a hard hand but really strived to make a good life for herself and her daughter, which in turn makes the car accident REALLY tragic. What kind of person was she? What are little hc’s or tidbits about her that kinda show the type of person she was?
So i’m just wondering, i know her and Robby’s relationship broke off pretty amicably but what was their relationship like? Their dynamic, I’d love to know how they met, how long they dated and how they became a sort of family unit (with little Maya). Does Robby feel a type of way about her after all these years, although it was the natural decision i imagine it may be a bit heavy adopting/raising the child of your dead ex-partner. How did he feel about her passing, how did he mourn it (if he did, we know he’s the type to bottle things up), even now? I’m just asking because during his breakdown in the later episodes he mentions everyone he lost, even the people he didn’t seem that affected by, so what type of way does he feel about Maya’s mom? If any?
i just love the way your building their relationship together and their dynamic, and I love how Maya is being slotted perfectly into the pitt world.
In honor of Season 2 coming along, I’m coming back to this terrific ask about Maya’s mom. 💕
She was pretty badass. A super cool, upbeat person who would actually say she had been dealt a great life. It was honestly wild how positive she was able to be in every situation and quite a contrast to Maya who saw the potential negatives in most situations, even as a little kid.
Mom’s name is Alana Bennett. She dropped out of college when Maya came along and since her parents weren’t supportive and the father not involved, she ended up working a lot off odd office type jobs to get them by for awhile. After a few years, Alana got a full-time job at one of the universities in Pittsburgh doing office work. She worked really hard to get the job because working for the university meant free tuition for finishing her degree and doing a masters program as well as free daycare/ preschool for Maya.
Alana had been studying Art History and wanted to be a museum curator so she started doing part-time classes to finish up her undergraduate degree before enrolling in the masters program (also enrolled part-time so she could continue working so it was taking forever).
Robby and Alana actually met in the ER. Maya was a frequent flyer due to her asthma so they’d come across each other then. And Alana made the first move and gave Robby her number right away. He was just so good with Maya and he was funny and matched Alana’s energy in banter and she just knew right away that she wanted to date him.
And she was right. They got along great. Things were great when they were together, but there were definitely difficulties with scheduling as they were both so busy and beyond that, Alana planned to move when she finished up her degree to worked at an art museum. That was a nonnegotiable for her and since Robby had no intention of leaving Pittsburgh, they decided to call it quits sooner rather than later, especially since Maya was involved.
Alana hadn’t intended for the three of them to be like a little family unit. She never introduced men she dated to Maya, but when they had a date scheduled and the babysitter canceled, Robby said to just bring Maya along. Alana had hesitated for about a second before figuring it would be fine. Maya already knew Robby from the ER anyway. And she clearly liked him—Maya asked about him every time they ended up there for one of her asthma attacks. 😅 so Alana took Maya on her date with Robby and it went great and so it just became something they did because they sort of decided Alana shouldn’t waste her money on a babysitter every single date when they’d both rather be spending time with Maya anyway…
It’s definitely a weird thing for Robby to raise Maya given the circumstance but also very natural, as you said. Like there really was no other viable option in his head and it’s a complicated thing for him to mourn Alana’s loss. He definitely bottles a lot and puts Maya’s needs way above his own. He struggles a lot in the beginning and genuinely would not have made it through without the support from Adamson, Dana, and Abbot. I’m pretty sure Robby wasn’t even clued into the fact that he was grieving (he’s not all that self-aware). And throughout his time raising Maya, this very interesting thing happens where he learns so much more about Alana than Robby ever knew as Maya talks about her mom. It’s such a weird thing to continually learn all of these new little bits about this woman he’d been just in the early stages still of knowing and loving(?) I don’t think they were quite there yet but there was a mutual respect and care and attraction and they’re split was more of like a right people, wrong situation sort of thing so in learning all of these new little bits from Maya, he’s also imagining what could have been a little differently.
Thanks for the patience with this ask!