Okay so let me just give a quick catch up since I haven't really been posting. Since the last reply R and I have camped out for Comic Con tickets, went to a Paradise Fears concert and walked on the Highline afterwards, hung out with one of her friends at the Highline again, suffered 3 days of me being in Canada, and now I'm suffering a week of her being on a road trip. And God do I miss her...
I want to remember what happened on each date so I'll just categorize them I guess and try to give a BRIEF description.
This was legit hell. First we stayed at Midtown Comics from 6 in the damn morning till like 4 or so with two of her friends. We ended up not even getting anything because they ran out of the 3-day passes. So then we ended up going to Kinokuniya after going home to grab food and chairs and blankets and stuff. We ended up sleeping there the whole night, made friends with strangers, got sick from the subway fumes we were laying on, died of hypothermia, and suffered so much more. It was ridiculous. In the end they didn't even have enough 3-day passes either which infuriated me and we only ended up getting a lousy Saturday pass. SIGH.
So my parents decide to spontaneously plan a trip to Canada. At first I thought we'd be leaving on a Sunday and be back on Tuesday, August 12, 2014-Our one month anniversary. I would be back that night so we'd have enough time to go out for a movie date and watch Lucy. Then on Wednesday we were going to watch a movie that was going to play in the park on a projector and I've ALWAYS wanted to do that. Then on Thursday, the 14th, which is also my mother's birthday, we had the Paradise Fears concert. But no. My family had to fuck it up because my mom couldn't get out of work and we ended up leaving on TUESDAY. GREAT. That meant I wasn't even with her on our one month anniversary and then I came home too late and we missed the park movie. I felt like a total asshole because I always tell her we're going to do this and that and just let her down. She says she's used to it because of other people but I don't want to be one of them. I do honestly make the effort to plan things for us to do together but things just keep getting in the way somehow and it makes me feel all crummy..I didn't even get to enjoy the trip because of all that and because I was mad at my whole family too. Well except my dad…kinda..But I did bring her back a moose >.< it was so cute. I wanted it for myself.
3. Paradise Fears Concert
Now this was definitely something that lifted my spirits. The tickets were only $15 for an amazing yet annoying night. It was amazing because I got to have the honor of taking R to her very first concert woot woot. The stage setup was beautiful and we were so close to the stage since it was a nice small, intimate venue and because the band isn't that widely known. It was annoying because for one of the opening bands, these idiots started a mosh pit and were so damn inconsiderate. No one else was joining in like seriously. Take a fucking chill pill. And then these other girls were fucking crying the lead singer's name and were all "OMG HE LOOKED AT ME AHHH" uhm no. Calm yoself.
Anyway, after the concert was really nice too because I got to walk the Highline for the first time and it was soooo pretty during the night time. We finally got to sit down and took pictures and it was nice to just be able to enjoy each other's presence while taking in such a view. After that, she introduced me to Artichoke pizza and OMG…I fell in love. That's one of the things I love about R. She always introduces me to new things and takes me out to places I would have never even bothered going to. It's so nice to have someone like that because there are so many things in this world that are worth seeing or trying out and experiencing. I'm usually not one to go out to the city but I really do appreciate her showing me around and whatnot.
This day was…interesting. Tim is one of R's close friends and he also stayed with us when we camped out for NYCC tickets. The two of them decide they're going to hang out one day and he says she can bring anyone. So she tells him she's bringing her boyfriend aka me. Oh!! I forgot to mention she gave me a haircut which is why she calls me her Korean boyfriend now haha. But damn her first reactions to it was so cute. She legit couldn't look me in the eye without squealing/smiling. At least now I know she has a kink for short hair and cross dressers.
Anyway, so he got all interested and was like "When did you get a boyfriend?" So we tricked him and stuff and then when he saw it was me he was just like OMFG… He was really nice about it though. He was so supportive of R being in a relationship and even planned out conversations and such. It's nice to know that he's there for her and actually gives a damn unlike others. But of course we didn't tell him that we're actually dating.
The three of us walked a whole fucking lot. First, it took us forever to get to the Artichoke pizza place so before that we went to Guitar Center and fooled around and stuff. R took pics of me and Tim acting like a gay couple holding hands and shit since I looked like a dude xD. What was really cute was that she told me it was funny but couldn't help but be jealous. I love it when she gets possessive. But yeah I told her I was jealous too because well one her and Tim are really close and she was holding his hand too but only to cover up so that we can hold hands.
After pizza we walked the whole Highline and had some damn good popsicles. Granted they were expensive but they were so worth it. We then walked all the way to Kinokuniya and R suddenly got sick and was distant from us. We thought she got pissed off at something because she just ran out of the store and across the street to Bryant Park. Tim and I were just like what did we do wrong? And we were trying to figure it out together but then I was like "If anything, I'll just talk to her when we go home." Because she's the type who doesn't say what's bothering her until afterwards. But then Tim said that he was going to tell her what was up with him and see if it makes her feel better and I asked what it was and he said he's been seeing a bunch of doctors and stuff, which she still doesn't know since he didn't tell her. In the end though, she really was just sick because she ate expired animal crackers. And she's still sick now :(
Once things were cleared up, we walked all the way to Central Park and had a little sing off and sky admiration. We took a stroll around the park and then eventually Tim left because he had to go do his Ice Bucket Challenge for ALS. So R and I walked all the way to Times Square to go to the M&M Factory and Toys R Us. We ended up reaching home at midnight and damn were my legs and feet sore. Ouch.
Now my baby is on a road trip with family members she hates and she's sick. I feel so bad and I don't even know what to do to help her. Yeah texting and calling and snapchatting are obvious but that doesn't change the fact that she's there with them and bored out of her mind. I couldn't sleep because I missed her so much and pitied her. I ended up sleeping at like 5:30 in the morning and right now it's legit 2:37 and I wish she was next to me.
The day before she left I spent with her. She was coughing so much so I told her to take a nap after her tea and I ended up napping with her. She was whining and fidgeting in her sleep and I didn't know what to do other than gently pet her head and kiss her forehead. She would squeeze onto my hand every now and then too. My precious baby. D: And to think she's feeling like crap and she has to go on a road trip she doesn't even want to be on. It's ridiculous. I just want her to feel better and come home.
