My emotions are fluid in nature, but my thought processes are frustratingly rigid. Sometimes my brain falls into harmful, toxic habits that have to do with comparing partners, quantifying interaction time, and my reluctance to say ‘no’.
Here, I write about how reframing time as a fluid resource has helped me overcome scheduling angst and stay away from misguided concerns about ‘fairness’.
When it comes right down to it, balance in polyamorous relationships has less to do with nailing down a consistent schedule, and more to do with flexibility and compassion.
Image is the Temperance card from Tarot of the Silicon Dawn, by Egypt Urnash.











