#manipulate men

Tangible steps to manipulate men by love bombing them

Love bombing a male is nowhere near as simple as it is a girl, as women often desire an established partnership and oftentimes a family from way earlier ages than men. Men don't come with social expiration dates nor have societal pressure for love, so love bombing them requires deep drilling into their unhealed desires and actual passions. Do understand that mens first and primary goal with you will always be sex. That's the first thing in their mind even if they do want something more as well. Don't let this discourage you to manipulate them past it & override it.

Listen to his life goals and derive knowledge about what need he's trying to fill with that goal or what wound he's trying to patch.

Your job is to be a dopamine rush, learn those things that make him light up with positive emotions and talk about them in different forms.

Make him visualize those things that light him up by telling stories of what you two could do. Does he want to build a house? Talk about tasks you both could do. Does he want to travel Europe? Make up specific imageries of places you two could go to or even talk about yourself as an individual in this fantasy he's just sneakily placed into. Once you plant these images they're like short films he watched and affect him accordingly. Those imageries will activate in his brain when he faces triggers of his dreams & you're right on his mind.

Make him feel special by remembering his favorites and giving him compliments based on his insecurities. If he's been made feel stupid, compliment his intellect, if he feels less accomplished than others make sure to make him feel extraordinarily talented and adept. This will make him feel like you see and know him like no one else does, "the real him", even though it's just his delusional ego stroked through his coping mechanisms.

Try to be genuine with compliments. Identify qualities that are important to him & use them. And never forget to discard him and take it all away from him just when he's started to trust your love.

Boars with avoidant attachment

The truth is, you want to stay away from them. Romantically, platonically and physically. The only way to get anything out of them is beating them on their own game; which is tedious. It's not worth the work imo and if you've accidentally slipped into it already, chances are, you have emotions invested. My condolences, please run.

In order to get anything out of them you'd have to:

Act colder than anyone you know.

Demean him in every way possible.

Disrespect him from the bottom of your heart.

Keep talking to him even though you despise him and only talk about yourself and your own problems even though he'll withdraw when he senses criticism.

Understand that he WILL deem you as "less capable of a human being" because you "don't suffocate your emotions".

This, however, is the sole reason why he'd be interested because he wants to feel useful, important and superior without putting in emotional effort.

He's used to feeling responsible for everyones emotional states since childhood, hates it, and seeks it.

DO NOT TRY TO COMMUNICATE ABOUT EMOTIONS BETWEEN YOU TWO.

Think Wednesday Addams writing a diary but it's you chatting with him.

An unhealed dismissive avoidant male is the worst kind of a situation you can get entangled with, as well as the easiest if you struggle with abandonment wounding. Stay mindful and safe. It's also easy because they don't require much from you, so you have your own peace to work in the loneliness.

I’ve been reading your guide on how to get men to be obsessed with you …but what if the guy is very nonchalant and laid back? Will it still work? I am very heavily into the LOA but i do believe putting in the work as well.

SO my new boyfriend is a very minimal effort guy and he is generally very laid back. And i’ve been trying to use your tactics to manipulate him and challenge myself to get a guy to go against what he’s used to. I’ve altered my thoughts and personality to fit his nonchalantness so i don’t go crazy. But I want HIM to do the opposite so he can just be on my frequency, if that makes sense. I want HIM to change his personality and spoil me and be romantic etc so i don’t have to act like i don’t give a fuck like him.

I really hope you can give me tangible steps on how to really get this guy obsessed and out of his element. (I would like to add that as dumb as this may sound, i have my reasons for wanting this outcome. I did make the mistake of sleeping with him already before i had standards 😭 and now i just really want to manifest and put in the work to get him to show up the way I want. Because i hate feeling like i gave it up for nothing. I also do want and see a future with him…)

Thank you so much in advance & i’m sorry it’s so long but hopefully this will help someone else out there as well

My answer to this would be what the hell are you even doing??? He likely shows no effort because he didn't have to, he already got the most valuable things and knows you require no pursuing. And after seeing all of this you say you see a future with him???? It seems you see a future with him because you are neurochemically addicted to chase his approval of your worth and your ego has hard time accepting you got used, and now you're not cared for. Baby! Why are you not angry??? You do not need to manipulate men who are worth having in your life as real connections, they will chase and make sure to catch and keep you interested in them. AND be nowhere near nonchalant about it.

There's only 2 options to why a male acts "nonchalant", he's either just not that into you and you're a place holder which will be a huge job to manipulate a shift in after this point, or he has a dismissive avoidant attachment style. And those fuckers are the worst kind of all males you could ever try to tackle this with. At the end of the day emotionally unavailable males should never be anyone's long term option UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. LOA is great, but you need hard-core psychological tools if you really want to waste your time on him.

Attachment styles develop early in life and often remain stable over time.

I'm most certainly happy to dedicate its own post for this, but do keep in mind healthy long term relationships should never base on manipulation and games because they do not create safety and stability within the relationship. Being vulnerable, open and honest with communication is what creates true intimacy and connection which without there can never be authentic love or trust. The tips I share are mostly focused on emotionless usage of them.

That being said there's plenty of situations where being a little narcissistic and toxic with men is perfectly fine & justified and I'm happy to help 💞

I ain't here to tell you what to do, but if I expected every man to be a manipulative shitweazel I would avoid men as much as possible. I would definitely not actively look for more relationships with toxic men and try to outplay them at their own sick games.

What is the goal here, and is it really worth it?

I see my tips have sparked up a fair amount of confusion so let's clear it up.

My post is a collection of tactics men have used for centuries to take advantage of women. Similarly, these tips are for the purpose of USING men; not to seek out a genuine relationship. It's not my business how people decide to use the knowledge of these abusive tactics whether it's to learn to not get used or use men who rightfully deserve it. I would not encourage using these tactics to build connections with someone you're romantically interested in for long term.

Teen girl prey on weak men! This is just wrong #poisonivy #weirdnews #wtfnews

A YouTuber has come out with a video to expose the horrible acts of another user, a teen who called herself Poison Ivy. She allegedly manipulated vulnerable men and encourage them to kill themselves. (more…)