#makehimsmile

      As women we love to know that our wonderful men are thinking of us. Any small act of love may it be a single flower or a random meaningful text can brighten our day and keep us smiling for hours. While we have all run into the many shared posts on social media sites labeled “#RelastionshipGoals”, accompanied by a screen shot of a text message from a man/teenager expressing how much they love the women in their life. These messages are often shared and favorited over and over again with women commenting on how much they want a man like that, someone who always thinks about them and shows them how much they care. 

       BUT! Rarely do I come across similar post where its the ladies appreciating their boys. So many women claim they want men that will love them and show it even in the smallest gesture, but don't do the same in return. Everyone loves to know that their significant other is thinking of them, and its important for both of you to communicate and to appreciate each other. Just ask yourself how often you've told him that you love him, or how proud you are of him. Not just a simple “I love you” but the long drawn out messages that we want to get from them. People complain that they want a man that cherishes them and loves them, or ask themselves “why doesn't he do sweet stuff like that”. Its simple, its communication and its appreciation not just from the man on the other side of that message but the woman as well. It goes both ways if you want to be loved and cherished you need to let him know that you feel the same way. If you want a loving relationship with him he's not the only person who needs to show he loves you, you need to show them back. Its not give and take, its sharing. You share your feelings with eachother and if you want something you can't be afraid to ask. You tell them how you feel and while some men (women as well) aren't good with sharing how they feel you need to reassure them that you are there for them and want nothing more then to be able to understand what they want and what they are thinking. People aren't mind readers and lack of communication is what causes the majority of bumps and obstacles in a relationship. Even if you have no problems and everything is going smoothly we can't forget to remind our significant other that we love them even if you've been together for years. You want him to make you smile and feel like your a teenager again but ladies our men want the same thing. Don't just take the small act of love and not doing anything about it, cherish it by sharing it together. Strive to make eachother happy and appreciate him the way you want him to treasure you.