Hello. It's been stressing me out that through all the years I've been at this school, I've done absolutely nothing and I'm so so scared about my future, and I have so many regrets. I never spent any time focusing on my education/consistently studied, and skipped many classes. I feel like my whole life is just dragging myself to school and doing the bare minimum. Please tell me how I can change this? I feel so sorry for everyone in my life especially my parents because of how I wasted this life.
We’re sorry to hear you’ve been feeling this way. Sometimes the stresses from school and parents can make us feel like we’ve wasted our time, but please don’t think that you’ve wasted your life! There’s such a bright future ahead of you and remember, school is just one tiny portion in comparison to all the wonderful things you’ve yet to do. In the meantime, maybe try finding joy and areas to focus and excel in other than school, whether that be something creative or maybe a sport etc. I feel a similar way to you about school, skipped many classes, only studying when I feel like it, which is usually just to pass a SAC, but just stick it through, you’re almost there! Get that VCE graduation certificate thing and go out there and pursue YOUR interests, do something that’ll make YOU happy, because your parents will be happy if they see you’re happy.
What I always tell myself is to just deal with the fact that I didn’t drop out earlier, but when I get out of high school, I’m gonna hit that grind, work my ass off and live my best life to make up for all the wasted time in high school. I don’t have a great plan for my future or how I’m going to do it but I’m motivated and smart-ish (can’t be too conceited), I’ll make it work somehow, and I’m sure you will too!
While on the topic of future, I suggest that’d be good to talk to the careers counsellors about where you may want to head into in the future, they’re here to help us with that, especially if you have no clue.
Super sorry this is a really late reply, but I hope you feel a bit better after reading this :))