#lunasthoughts

I read somewhere that said "a man who didn't (grow up) with love won't know how to love". This is true but, to add on...

Often a man that has been loved (growing up) won't know how to SHOW love not JUST love you. Shit that may have been the easy part for him. You are a phenomenal fucking woman... But its simply because .... He never had to..

When a mother loves a child, that child doesn't have to love her back. It's a take take situation. He just has to respect her. He can grow up in a house FULL of women who raised him so tenderly and lovingly but he never had to give that love back... He just had to be.

So when it's his turn to show the woman he's found himself loving. He can only respect her and do for her , the rest has to be taught and learned. There's a new found intimacy he'd also have to accept and perform and feel with this "love" we are expecting from him. Not all but some need that direction. That is the part we as women often have no patience to teach or allow them to have because our emotions come so naturally and without fear. We have to understand the levels and understanding men run into with this kind of thing.

I got it pierced about 6 or 7 months ago, and it wasn’t painful at all!