You know, that’s a good question. First and foremost this will always be a judgement free space. I will never publish an ask with the intent to pass shame or judgement. I’m a firm believer that asking should always be free. And I’m pretty open minded. However, there are some things that quite honestly while I would be comfortable talking about in DMs, I probably wouldn’t post on this blog. There are also a lot of kinks I’m just not into (at this time). But I can be convinced. I’ll elaborate more down below

cw: potentially triggering topics. This is a somewhat comprehensive list because I wanted it to be as informative as possible. Please do not read this if you are sensitive to extreme kinks/topics.

Obviously this is not a fully comprehensive list— so if there’s something you want to know that I didn’t cover, lemme know.

General Blog Rules :⋆*･ﾟ

Be respectful in my inbox (no hate, no spam).

Anons are welcome 💌, but don’t abuse it.

I don't mind spam liking.

Minors, please refrain from interacting with NSFW content.

Don’t repost my writing elsewhere without permission.

Reblogs > likes!

Requests:

Requests & thirsts are open!!

I don’t do crossovers unless specifically stated.

I’ll write fluff, angst, hurt/comfort, and smut.

Be specific if you want certain tropes or vibes!

Restrictions:

I won’t write: non-con, underage (including aging up minors), incest/stepcest, bestiality, gore, pregnancy/child tropes, race play, age play, scat kinks, abuse of disabilities.

I'm not writing for real people ever, only fictional characters.

Certain darker kinks might be limited.

If I’m not comfortable with a request, I won't write it.

Other Notes:

My fics are self-indulgent and reader-insert friendly, especially for woc.

Reader is afab or gn unless stated otherwise.

I may take a bit longer to respond to requests; patience is greatly appreciated!

This blog is meant to be fun; let’s keep it that way !!

I won't write:

Scat

Minors (sexually)

Zoophilia

Race play

Yes, but:

Disabilities/conditions/illnesses I don't have experience with. I'm willing to do research and write about it. But yanno.

Pregnancy/parenthood. No fluff w/ it.

Food centered stuff. Has to be a real good idea

Sex work. Leaning no, but who knows.

Non-humans-> aliens, monsters, hybrids, shifters, etc. I absolutely and enthusiastically will write about it. It may just not meet up to expectations since I have trouble visualising how half these things work.

I can't think of anything else that im not willing to at least try. This list may change over time, and I may ignore an ask if I can't do anything with it/it's not my cup of tea.

Friendly reminder: I will never shame anyone for anything they send my way! Even if we don't like the same thing, this is a judgement free zone.

Things don't even have to be requests, if you just wanna talk/infodump/ask, feel free to do so :)

Extra:

If it's an x reader please specify gender and/or sex of reader, I will write anything but I do lean far more to afab so that will be my automatic assumption.

I will write wlw, mlm, t4t, and poly relationships!!

While this is mainly a CoD blog don't be shy to request another piece of media! I dabble in a lot of fandoms, (and won't hesitate to join a new one if it sounds good).

Please do not be upset if it takes me a while to answer your ask, or its not exactly what you want. I do what I can, im no god that makes everything come true.

Unfriendly reminder: If you send hate my way, I will probably not take you seriously or just ignore you.

But if i misrepresent something or do things that could offend someone, please tell me. I dont intend to harm anyone.

We're all adults here (at least you should be if you're interacting with me) so if you still don't have the maturity to mind your own business or communicate properly that's embarrassing for you.

this list is extremely subjective/personal and is likely to change over time, but i thought it may be interesting to share

i have no issues involving interacting with people who may have kinks that are on my limit lists, but i do ask that if you message me regarding anything on any of these lists please take care when discussing any soft limits and do not discuss any hard limits with me- thank you,

anything marked with an asterisk applies only to fiction

turn ons/kinks:

praise

biting/hickeys

terato/exo/xenophilia, monsterfucking*

primalplay

petplay

knots/knotting

teasing, stimulation/pleasure/orgasm control 

overstimulation 

(light) bondage; especially collars and gags

oral fixation

cheirophilia, fingers in mouth  

cumplay, creampies, snowballing, cumflation

facefucking

scratching

begging

obedience/discipline, training, brat taming

saliva/drooling

dacryphilia

breeding, heats/ruts, a/b/o

impactplay (spanking, slapping)

soft limits: 

inspection/examination

pleasure/orgasm denial, edging

sensory deprivation

degradation/humiliation

public, voyeurism/exhibitionism, video/audio recording, photography

rough sex, painplay, sadomasochism

medicalplay/medfet, surgery*

gore/organs, bloodplay, cardiophilia, consensual cannibalism*

odontophilia

knifeplay

somnophilia

stuckage

hairpulling

aphrodisiacs

corruption/innocence

mindbreak/conditioning/brainwashing/hypnosis, dehumanization, dollification

cnc/dubcon

fighting

double penetration

oviposition

fearplay/edgeplay

size difference

speech restriction

alt breathplay (corsets, gags)

boots/shoes, socks/stockings, being stepped on

foodplay*

tempplay (ice, wax)

anal*

body writing

e-stim

being spit on

gunplay*

suspension play*

body modification (piercing, tattooing, branding, scarification)*

being shared/free use*

hard limits:

misgendering, detransitioning, sissification

unsanitary situations, watersports/scat/vomit, etc

raceplay

bimbofication/dumbification

cheating

fisting

choking

feederism

feet

figging

pregnancy

birth

burning

hooks

sounding

vore

stop i’m falling in love with this au these are so perfect

wtf we were having a good time we were all having a good time

especially if it’s like. they look back at the dorky freshmen they used to be and they’re so glad that now they are friends and don’t torture one another so much and maybe zuko and sokka were getting so close to kissing-

These lists are not exhaustive, and not in any particular order. If you don't see it as a limit, feel free to ask, I've keen known to indulge others kinks.

Check below the fold for all my dirty little secrets 💚