#like... sir?

The group therapy facilitator is eyeballing you? Like, this man's eye contact game was insane bruh. And it felt like it got somehow more intense when he learned it was my last day.

Sir had me thinking maybe he was trynna break a few conduct rules or something, my stars.

Makes me wonder can he read minds because before it started and I thought he was just one of the attendees, I took notice. Maybe he noticed my noticing.

someone tweeted like “picky eating is a turnoff, you’re 28 eat a vegetable” and people are up in arms like “that’s ableist” or “congrats your childhood was free from trauma and abuse” 

like.. no... some ppl just grew up with parents who enabled things and i think its better to acknowledge THAT than just say things are abuse when they weren’t? i mean to an extent enabling certain unhealthy behaviours (like being a picky eater) is abusive? but i know thats not what they mean. 

I know there IS a link to trauma and abuse and i’ve watched documentaries on ARFID but theres a huge difference between those very rare extreme cases and the general pickiness. there are some heartbreaking stories about this out there.

but interestingly...ive only met white people who are “picky eaters”... growing up in asia? african family? you eat what’s in front of you cus that’s what your parents worked hard for so you don’t develop the concept of ‘i dont want that food’. it’s like breathing you don’t think about whether you like it or not its just nourishment?????????

we come from cultures that unfortunately abuse children more than any other (like my parents would beat me and then right after id be sobbing and eating dinner while they were still yelling insults in my ear and my head is spinning) but ......... why didnt i develop an aversion to those foods tho lol - and this is common across both my continents yet picky eating is rare...

sooooo LOL i think this whole thing to me is just white people excusing their bland ass palates like.. soz i dont buy it