I've asked this question to A LOT of people, and they say it is.

I honestly cannot take this shit anymore.

Yes, I've moved on from you ... But you have hurt me more than you know. For those who don't know, I had my first boyfriend last year. He was the first guy I ever liked and cared about. He broke up with me after a stupid fight. I see him everyday at school, and he calls me his "best friend."

You're moving on to girl number three ... I am trying to move on to guy number one. Your actiosn showed how little you really cared. You got a girlfriend five f*cking days after we broke up. I was your longest relationship ever, and you "loved me." They say it takes half as long as the relationship was to move on which would be two months (we dated for four). Five f*cking days. My nerves were so bad, I was out of school for the week because I was throwing up. He doesn't know that's what happened. He obviously didn't know I cared. You obviously didn't care.

He keeps me around and talks about being "friends with benefits." No. I'm NOBODY'S plan B. Either you choose me, or you lose me. I'm that starter Pokemon that you know if just so awesome (I'm frickin' Torchic bitch) but you go and pick a sucky one. Then you lose and never become a Pokemon Master. That is what you get for making me your second thought. I will not be used as a sex object. I have more worth than a f*ck toy (some guys clearly don't see that ... But that is another story for another time). Besides, you have a girl you "like." Go make her your f*ck toy. You had your chance when you were dating me.

Besides, you moved on to a girl who was a step down from me (she cheated on him after a week). I've moved on to a guy that well ... I really like him. He has done more for me in a few weeks than you did in a few months (The other guy and I aren't boyfriend-girlfriend, but we have been on a date and have scheduled another one). My parents like him, my brother likes him, my friends that have met him like him ... You didn't get that from my family.

Here is where the title comes from: You kind of act like a player. You just started dating this girl, and you are saying she is my "one and only." You're full of shit. How the hell can you say that to someone you just started liking ? You didn't say that to me until maybe a month ... Tell me that isn't slutty.

-has a conversation about "Kandi" on New Years-

-is bored and going through Tumblr-

-comes across "Kandi" and all of that-

-finds out more research about it-

I'm going to be completely honest right. Do I think it's weird how people go all out on the Kandi stuff ? A little. Do I think they shouldn't ? No. It may be little plastic beaded bracelets, but it is something that they have a passion for. That's pretty cool. Do I find it interesting ? Yes, I do. Seeing all of the things you can make with some beads and string is astounding. I've also seen all of the PLUR stuff. That's a is a pretty good policy to live by if you ask me. The thing that gets me is the raving. Am I saying it shouldn't be done ? No. That's their choice. It just seems like since raves can have a negative connotation to them, it would transend to the Kandi. That's the only problem I personally see.