#lavellyet

the main reason Ladanelan didn't return to her clan after disbanding the Inquisition was entirely because she married Josephine, and not only because she wanted to live with her wife, but also because she still took dalish traditions seriously. if she had become Keeper after Deshanna's death, she would have exiled any elf who had married a human or a city elf. she may be hypocritical about many things, but she takes her people's traditions far too seriously.

I see Josephine as a wife who greatly respects her partner's personal space and time, but also knows how to demand that the person she's with doesn't forget that they are a couple and she needs attention. Ladanelan, like Josephine, can become very detached from the world when she is working, Then Josephine would enter her office and say: “in one hour I want you to stop working and give me all your attention.”, Ladanelan would get very excited/guilty and reply: "I can give you attention now!", then Josephine would shake her head saying: "I want attention in an hour, not now.", then Ladanelan would get super anxious watching the time pass and in exactly 59 minutes she would run around the house looking for Josephine