#krem headcanons

Listening to him tell stories about his adventures with the Chargers.

Patching him up after a mission.

Being friends with the Chargers.

OC ASKS: LET’S GET PHYSICAL

Get to know my character

Krem is pretty average when it comes to jealousy. He’s definitely experienced it, especially envy. Mostly, the envy comes with being transgender, though. He definitely has penis envy a lot, but he’s also not willing to change his body through the means of magic. He will always be envious about that, though, and it does make him struggle with his body and his dysphoria.

My Krem never wants to fall pregnant. That’s a whole dysphoric thing that he’d never want to feel with someone or personally deal with. And while my Krem certainly does lean more towards the ladies, it doesn’t mean sex with a man might not happen if he got close enough and comfortable enough with them and his body.

Without magic, he could fall pregnant if he wasn’t careful. That HORRIFIES Krem. If he ever sleeps with a man, he’s going to be taking witherstalk to stop any accidents from happening. 

munday meme // multimuse edition

// I mean, Krem... by default is a deserter from the Imperium, so he’s technically a criminal and on the run. He’d go to gaol. But I feel like for a serious crime, like murder or something, Aith would be the one to go to prison. She doesn’t feel remorse when she kills people--although she generally only kills bad guys, anyway. But people who might have redeemed themselves, she doesn’t even give a chance to. 

Talan would go to gaol because he’s just an idiot pulling pranks, but he’d probably also sleep his way out of it. 

Finn would only go to prison because he killed someone who was trying to kill him, but he’s also the most passive of the muses here. 

Sinday Asks

Not really, no. Krem is pretty shy when it comes to sex, and he’s not explored a lot. In my headcanons, he’s never actually been comfortable enough with someone to sleep with them. Being transgender has definitely impacted this. He’s definitely kissed, touched people, had crushes and stuff, but he’s never been in love with someone long enough--especially since he was serving in the military as well. He definitely had crushes on some of the people there, but he also had to keep his secret safe. 

Working with Bull kinda became his priority and moving away from Tevinter. If he’s going to have sex with someone, then it’s going to be someone he’s in love with. He’s not into just fucking random people.

If your muse suspects Krem to be a woman, then don’t be shy to approach this subject with me, because Krem is open about being a transman and he wants people to learn and accept him for who he is.

That doesn’t mean he’s not a bit awkward about it and doesn’t suffer dysphoria. He does. But he also knows what and who he is, and he is proud to be the man he is, trying to suffocate any shame he’s had in the past.

Krem has never had surgery, hormones or magical means to change his body, including facial/jaw structure, muscle structure, voice, etc. In a perfect world, we wouldn’t care so long as Krem says he’s a man, but Thedas isn’t a perfect world, and there will be people who discriminate against him, who are transphobic, and who just accidentally assume he’s a woman (and those who even give him questioning glances).