Dear tarot, do you like me, circle one: yes or absolutely yes? Just kidding tarot! What should I do about this inconvenient but very consuming crush I have? Yes, I know there are several, but you know, by far the most prominent and consuming one. Love, Kitty
Card 1: Nine of Pentacles (past situation)
Self-reliance, independence, and refinement are the key aspects of this card. Before you were consumed by this crush, you felt yourself to be comfortably independent. You had self-discipline. You had other things to occupy you. You were the singular "you" in a whole and perfect sense. You've been comfortably able to like many people without feeling a consuming need for them and you liked it that way. Damnit.
Card 2: Queen of Pentacles Reversed (present situation)
The Queen of Pentacles is a person who is homey, practical, down to earth, inviting, supportive, and financially independent. She's sort of a motherish card, although as I've said before, face cards can represent people who are any or no gender. Reversed, she can indicate that you're struggling with perfectionism. Perhaps you're so consumed in your work that you worry that you're missing out on your crush. Perhaps you're worried that by focusing on your crush, you may miss out on your personal development. You could also be anxious that your affections towards this crush could borderline on smothering if you let yourself act on it. Remember that it's very, very important to focus on your home life and to let go of the idea that you need to be perfect at everything in order to do things right.
Card 3: Queen of Rods Reversed (possible outcome)
She represents an airy, charismatic, light-hearted person who loves life and gives of herself generously and freely. Reversed, she can be someone who is impatient with others, manipulative, and controlling. She can also represent burnout and loss of faith. I think she ties very much into the first two cards in this spread, which also pointed to anxiety relating to a loss of self-control in the face of this very exciting crush. Taken as a set, I think the cards are warning against turning away from yourself and your home life and acting rashly in pursuit of this current crush. Take a while to breathe and to distract yourself. Then reassess how this crush can fit into your life without disrupting your independence or causing you to collapse from burnout. Get to know them better before acting.
tl;dr: You have been comfortably independent for a while and are anxious that this crush will consume the self-focused, homey aspects of your life and/or distract you from what needs to be done. Step back and reassess what it is that you need and then reevaluate this person's place in your life to avoid burning out.