#karoshi

Current CSM manga (and a lot of other manga) could look so good if it wasn't for Japan's insane work culture

Cynthia Erivo AND Teo Yoo in a movie??

Train Man / Densha Otoko (2005) : The Movie

"I am an anime and video game maniac who always wander around Akihabara. I always thought, is it really possible for a guy like me to find love? This is how I met her."

Inspired by a true story of an Otaku that found love on a train in the 90s, during the aftermath of Japan's Lost Decade or economic bubble crisis which leave many graduates unemployed.

A time when hikikomori (social recluse of graduates due to social pressure and broken dreams), and karoshi (death from overwork in order to retain their highly competitive jobs) became prominent.

Before the arrival of social media, there were chatrooms where singles talk about their woes, including the man whose username is "Train Man" as he commutes to work and home daily by trains.

A post went "viral" attracting many online users who find the story fascinating. "Train Man" told the story of how he accidentally save a young woman from being harassed by a drunkard salaryman.

He has been pestering the passengers who are mostly women but none dare to stop him. It wasn't until he harass a woman sitting across the "Train Man" that he summoned to courage to stop him.

Despite being terrified as he never confronted anyone before and do not know whether he is armed, he asked the drunkard to stop which caused them to struggle for a short time before others start to help.

They end up at the police station to clarify what happened as the women stepped forward as witness to save "Train Man". The young woman thanked him and asked for his address to send gifts.

Shocked by the incident, "Train Man" rushed home to share his story with online users of gamer addict, social recluse, neglected housewife, burnout salaryman and divorced nurse.

"Train Man" later received said gift from her: an expensive set of cups made by Hermès. Flabbergasted, that the tea set was too expensive to be a mere thank-you gift, he asked online users for advice.

They began giving grooming and dating tips, like getting a clean haircut (no more long hair), nice clothing (no more jeans and anime t-shirts), scouting for dining places (no more cheap ramen shops).

Feeling encouraged and thankful, "Train Man" consistently post updates on his daily situation asking for advice from the enthusiastic and chaotic users who find his new life development interesting.

They push him out of his comfort zone and wish for him to succeed as they hope he will be their inspiration to change their respective lives to find their own happiness too. If he can make it, so can they.

The story starts to get funny, wholesome and heartbreaking, as "Train Man" discovers the joys and hardships of relationships and his first taste of love as he learns that it's not as easy as he thought.

My commute takes an hour to an hour and a half, one way. So a total of two to three hours.

There’s twelve hours right there.

Today, I’m working from eleven to eight. Which means I set my alarm for seven this morning so I would have enough time to wake up, take my pills, eat breakfast, have a shower, and get ready for work (physically and mentally).

I’ll get home around nine-thirty, when I’ll be so tired that I’ll eat something small I bought at a convenience store in bed, then fall asleep.

I have to wake up at five tomorrow to start at nine, so if I’m lucky, I’ll get seven hours sleep. The thing is, seven hours is not enough for me to get sufficient REM sleep (15% of total sleep compared to 25% for allists). I’ll be more exhausted than usual tomorrow, and I’ll need all of Sunday (one of my days off) to recover.

But what about laundry? And dishes? When will I take out the trash, or clean the bathroom? Will I go grocery shopping?

Short answer: none of that gets done.

Hang on, what about hobbies? Can I do a bit of painting or writing? How about a walk to the park to see the cherry blossoms? Wouldn’t I like to grab a drink with friends?

Short answer: I wish.

I… I don’t know what to do. I got my psychiatrist to write a note saying I need a week off, but how often will I have to do that? What happens when I use up all my PTO?

I’ve told my employer about my various diagnoses and they’ve been surprisingly understanding so far, but once they realize I’m not going to get better, what will happen?

I can hear them saying “We can’t promote her, she’s unreliable,” and “she doesn’t deserve a raise, she doesn’t do as much work as everyone else.”