#karkittyasks

Thank you very much for asking !! ^_^

I hope your day is fantastic as well, anon~!

excluding this chick that really can’t stand me and who would probably want me thrown into a volcano, I’d probably have to say this really annoying anon that bothers my friend kelsey all the time and makes her upset because gosh she really doesn’t deserve it and it really misses me off. As for who I’d marry my default answer would be manbehindtheshades because I mean generally you’d marry your fiance amirite? But since he is also my answer for who I’d fuck because like doing the do is icky if it isn’t with the right person then I’ll marry kanaya-maryammm-or-fmmm instead because Arin is my fav boyfriend tbh ^w^

Very true but I mean I am already needy enough and I ask a lot of them as it is I really just dont wanna be even more of a bother..

Well, we were talking on the phone one night and just kind of telling each other about our days like we usually do and we were talking about my hair since i had just dyed it and it wasnt feeling too healthy (the bleaching kinda killed it). I mentioned wanting to just cut it off because it was so dead now and just generally unhappy amd he said i should. To that i replied “maybe a pixie cut.. Or something more gender neutral.. ” he was quiet for a moment before asking what i meant and i explained to him that for a few years now ive felt really weird and kind of like a reject because i dont always feel feminine and some days i see myself completely as a dude and that on those days having female genitalia literally makes me sick to my stomach and i hate myself for being physically female. He was still a bit confused but asked if id want to be permanently male and i said no because there are also the days that i see myself as so feminine its not even funny. After explaining that he began to understand and i made it clear that it isnt just a phase and its not because i spend so much time on here or anything in fact before dedicated my life to tumblr i didnt know genderfluidity was a thing but the more i look into it the more and more it makes sense to me. Now tanner is completely supportive of it and every morning he asks what pronouns id prefer. We even decided that on my feminine days id be called lily and on masculine days hed call me Gabriel. Since we had this discussion i feel like our relationship has become even stronger because i know no matter what i throw at him he’ll accept me for it. Other than him, the only people ive told is friends and i just told them straight out and explained what genderfluidity is and theyve been nothing but supportive. But honestly, i havent quite figured out how to tell my family and im not even sure if i will since im leaving for college next year. But if they catch on themselves then i guess that would be good. The best advice i can give you is to just be comfortable with who you are and when youre ready to come out to people just do it. If they dont want to accept you for who you are then that sucks for them because im sure youre p great and itd be their loss. I hope this helped, even if just a little bit!

glad to hear it, and its okay. you've made this one of my better weeks and for that i really must thank you.

How are you??

you seem like a p great person you definitely dont deserve any anon hate