#k con

I overtag because I’m a new blog and I want people to know that I’m out there. Everything I tagged was appropriate to that post, and is relevant to my blog. Nothing about that post was “trendy”. And I am living my life, this is a debate/vent blog.

It sounds more like your policing me than anything. I wasn’t speaking to you, that post wasn’t directed at you whatsoever. As I’ve stated before, this blog is welcome to all, including Tucutes. Had you not blocked me, I would have loved having an intellectual debate with you. The post was literally about hating having big boobs and having dysphoria for it. That’s it, it really wasn’t a big deal my dude.

@k-con Okay, there’s a whole lot of stupid to process here, but I’ll try it anyways.

First off, I literally have no idea who that person is. I’ve never heard of them before. Maybe you’re a fan, but it’s probably safe to assume that everyone else here using the phrase “trenders” is not, in fact, trying to directly reference that guy.

The term “trenders”, short for “trans-trenders”, is being used here to describe cis people who are pretending to have a more novel and unique gender identity, because they think it is trendy to not be cis. Trendy. That’s where the “trend” part comes from. I thought that was pretty self explanatory, but alright.

Sure, this world does still have a long way to go to when it comes to getting genuine trans people the professional medical help they need, but even now people are becoming more and more accepting towards trans people, and towards the idea that it is not a choice, it is not a quirky lifestyle phase the kids are going through. The world is making steps towards recognising it as a measurable disorder that deserves treatment to fix it, not misunderstanding and judgement.

Trenders threaten that progress when they insist that being trans is a choice that anyone can make if they feel like it. Because if it’s a choice, why spend all that money and time trying to “fix it” when you can just, y’know, choose not to be trans, huh?

Also really laughed @ “Seems to me tho that you aren’t actually trans”

Bitch when did I ever say that I was trans? I’m not. You realise that people are capable of forming stances on issues even when they don’t directly affect them, right?? Of course you didn’t, what am I even talking about? You’re probably just going to pull the “HA GOTCHA you aren’t trans so according to the law of tumblr I can just stick my fingers in my ears now” card.

The next comment is the really disturbing part, so lemme get this real clear.

You think this dirtywhiteboi67 guy is awful, he shames trans people, he effectively doxxes them, and he has some harmful ideas. He’s so bad, in fact, that you’re trying to call me out just for using a word that he does. He’s so awful, yet you would try and sic him in the direction of someone you think is trans just because they disagree with you?

That’s some top-tier fuckin’ finely-aged hypocrisy right there, my guy.

N & Ravi

@k-con