Man every time I look up sexuality and asexuality I get more and more confused about the definitions describing either, or, or both. Now I'm seeing things regarding attraction, desire, and so on.... i'm wondering if it's the labels that are contributing to the general confusion about this subject area because we as humans are so desperate to find something that relates to us (personally) and be able to call or go by and give it a name to apply to us.... When you think you have finally figured out the definition of something that is like relatively new, but other deviances or branches pop off from that definition but they want to include into it or it could possibly be an exception is where you can sit there and ponder like what's going on? This one originally thought of small area has now become a much larger encompassing ideal that a lot of different things can fit into but at the same time that makes it harder to define what is what for simplicity's sake. Maybe we should just all drop the labels and then just each person define what they think they are, what they think they want or what they do know what is generally... them and then just find compatibility along that spectrum because let's face it... it's not a one-size-fits-all thing it's a humongous spectrum where you Miraculously find facsimile in aspects or you find some range of compatibility and compromise from there.
